I don’t pick up women. I give them opportunities to pick me up. When I see a woman I
find attractive, it makes me feel good. So I gravitate to her and try to share my beauty
with her. If she accepts it, she’ll want to share her beauty with me, and before you know
it, there’s a mutual attraction there. I make her feel good, she makes me feel good. So it
just makes sense to be together.”
Maybe it was the fact that I was tired and it was late at night, but what Zan said made a
great deal of sense to me.
There’s a zen-like notion that exists which states “The universe will give you what you
want, you just have to ask for it and be ready to receive it.” In a way, that’s what Zan
was telling me he did.
He went to great lengths to eliminate as much negativity from his life as possible. If
someone was negative, or manipulative, or self centered, Zan would move away from
them and towards people who were positive, honest, and giving. He’d distance himself
from people who told him he couldn’t do certain things, and he’d move towards people
who encouraged him to do the impossible.
When I looked at the life Zan was living, I could see that it was much more than just
about how he looked on the outside. It was who he was on the inside that attracted
women to him and kept them wanting more.
And for those of us (like you and me) who want to create lives of abundance and
happiness, all we need to do is follow Zan’s simple advice:
“Move towards beauty, and away from that which is not beautiful.”
This is the real secret of attraction. This is where women start approaching you, and want
to be around you. This is the secret behind living a life full of fun, happiness, and
beautiful girls.
Positive people attract everyone they meet. People like to feel good, so they gravitate
towards that which makes them feel that way.
If you become a person who makes others feel good, you become a person others seek
out and gravitate towards.
By the same token, if you move away from negativity, you distance yourself from those
people who would drag you down and destroy your inner beauty.
It is a perfect system, and brilliant in its simplicity.
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