“So what you’re saying is that when you see a girl, all you do is express your passion for
them, and whenever you’re with them, you have that same passion, so they feel good
about it?”
“Pretty much,” said Zan. “See, women want love. They want romance. They want to
feel attractive and loved. They want someone who is interested in them – ALL of them.
Not just their looks. But who they are, and what they like.”
“But how do you keep from being wussified?” I asked. “If a girl knows you like her too
much, won’t she lose interest in you?”
“Not if you treat every woman with the same passion,” said Zan.
I smiled. “You dog, you!” I laughed. Zan smiled back, knowing I had gotten it. “If you
treat every woman with such passion, the girls you’re with know they’ll have to do things
to keep you happy and do away with the competition. But if they’re still getting the
passion from you and feeling great, they’ll want to do things to please you so you don’t
break up with them.”
“Simple, isn’t it?” said Zan. “Just treat every woman you meet like she is the most
beautiful, interesting woman there is. And they will LOVE you for it.”
This was Zan’s second secret. And just like the first one, it’s brilliant in its simplicity.
Too many men are judgmental about women. They like to criticize them or obsess over
their flaws.
Then you have other types of men who are ambivalent towards women. It never crosses
their mind to learn as much as they can about them. These are often the types of guys
who forget things like anniversaries.
But the simple act of being interested in a woman, and focusing on her positive traits, and
making her feel good, not only about being with you, but about herself, is enough to
make any woman want to latch on to you and never let go.
Allow yourself to be passionate about women. Every woman, and every facet of them.
Be interested in them, and rejoice in the things about them that make you happy.
That is the most attractive quality any man can possess (and you don’t have to look like
Brad Pitt to do it!).
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