You’re jealous of those you see as more attractive, and you are always angry and feel
sorry for yourself because you are constantly comparing yourself to them. You see them
as being blessed while you’re cursed, and you resent them for their good fortune. You
believe how you look is completely out of your control, and you feel helpless against
those who are deemed better looking than you.
After all, the beautiful people get everything they want.
Finally, the Loser Myth is about how you see your past and how you see your
future. “Once a loser, always a loser,” is your motto. You’ve failed so many times in
your life, you MUST be a loser! If you weren’t, you would have won more often! You
would have gone on more dates, had more sex, been in relationships with more beautiful
women. You wouldn’t be afraid of rejection.
But instead, you don’t trust success. To you, it’s just “good luck” if something good
happens to you. It has absolutely nothing to do with who you are, what you believe, or
how you act. Your fate is NOT in your hands, and you are ultimately destined to fail.
After all, no matter what, bad times lie ahead.
So ask yourself this: which myths do you believe in?
I was accustomed to calling myself a stupid, fat, ugly loser. Is it any wonder I struggled
with the ladies? Is it any wonder any of us do? With beliefs like this, we’ve lost before
we’ve even tried to succeed. We’ve taken ourselves out of the game, and won’t allow
ourselves to re-enter it.
But wait, it gets worse.
See, these five myths represent THOUGHTS and FEELINGS about yourself. We
haven’t even touched on the other aspect of it – your ACTIONS – and INACTIONS –
that serve to back up these myths and make them seem real to you.
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