&- Purchase&several&yummy&scented&candles&for&your&bedroom&and&have&them&lit&when&he&
comes&home&from&work&or&after&dinner.&Even&if&they&are¬&lit,&it&will&warm&his&heart&to&
know&that&you&are&thinking&about&him&and&planning&ahead.&
& - Sneak&an&article&of&sexy&lingerie&in&his&briefcase,&in&his&work&pants&pocket,&or&on&the&seat&
of&his&car&for&a&morning&surprise.&Don’t&be&surprised&if&he&comes&home&early!&
&
Here’s'What'the'Guys'Said:'
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The%biggest%struggle%in%our%marriage%has%been%spiritual,%emotional,%and%physical%intimacy.%She%
has%a%difficult%time%being%vulnerable.%Richard%
I%wish%my%wife%understood%my%inner%life%better:%insecurity,%embarrassment,%shame,%hope.%Gene%
I%don’t%think%there%is%anything%my%wife%doesn’t%understand%about%me.%We%are%able%to%openly%talk%
about%everything.%Nathan%
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