I’m¬&suggesting&that&a&man&wants&his&wife&to&initiate&sex&all&the&time.&That&isn’t&the&natural&
order&of&things.&God&created&man&to&be&the&aggressor&and&woman&to&be&the&recipient.&Even&our&
bodies&are&crafted&for&such.&Men&are&hunters&and&women&are&gatherers.&But&I&can&promise&you&
that&every&man&likes&to&feel&hunted&and&captured&by&the&woman&of&his&dreams.&&
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Romance'Challenge''
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- Make&his&favorite&dessert&and&eat&dinner&by&candlelight.&
& - &Post&“I&love&being&your&wife!”&on&his&Facebook&wall.&
& - Do&something&fun%and&unexpected&together&such&as&laser&tag,&horseback&riding,&bungee&
jumping,&rock&climbing,&or&zip&lining&(I&said&unexpected!)&Or&go&on&a&picnic,&go&to&a&driveS
in&movie,&take&a&ballroom&dance&class,&take&a&boat&ride,&go&to&a&ball&game,&or&attend&a&
comedy&performance.%
% - Run&your&fingers&through&his&hair&and&give&him&a&head&massage.&If&he&doesn’t&have&any&
hair,&the&head&massage&will&do&just&fine.&
% - Set&up&a&romantic&setting&in&a&room&other&than&your&bedroom.&Surprise&your&husband&by&
leading&him&into&the&room&for&a&special&rendezvous&with&you.%
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Here’s'What'the'Guys'Said:'
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Our%greatest%struggle%has%been%in%the%area%of%sexual%communication%and%understanding%the%
difference%in%the%importance%it%is%for%us%individually%and%as%a%couple.%We%have%had%to%learn%to%
make%time,%to%be%vulnerable,%and%to%seek%each%other’s%needs%before%our%own.%We%have%had%to%
learn%each%other’s%“love%language”%and%make%adjustments%to%help%meet%the%other’s%expectations%