&- Serve&up&some&chocolate&covered&strawberries&as&a&snack&for&two.&
& - Purchase&an&inexpensive&box&of&kid’s&valentine&cards&and&leave&a&trail&throughout&his&
day—in&his&underwear&drawer,&in&his&sock&drawer,&on&his&shoes,&on&his&cereal&box,&on&his&
car&seat,&in&his&lunch&bag,&in&his&briefcase,&etc.&Put&the&last&one&on&his&pillow&as&a&special&
invitation.&
& - Put&the&pillows&at&the&foot&of&the&bed&to&mix&it&up&a&bit.&You&might&be&surprised&what&
happens&when&you&remove&the&routine&and&the&expected.&
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The%woman%of%my%dreams%is%sold(out%for%God.%She%is%a%spiritual%and%a%sexual%person—a%prayer%
partner%and%a%sexual%partner.%Kevin%
My%wife%is%the%woman%of%my%dreams.%I%know%that%she%loves%and%respects%me.%Our%greatest%
struggle%has%been%our%sex%life.%I%wish%she%understood%that%I%need%to%be%needed%in%a%physical%way.%I%
don’t%want%her%to%view%the%physical%aspect%of%our%life%as%a%chore%or%an%obligation%that%she%has%as%
a%wife,%but%something%she%looks%forward%to%as%a%woman.%Her%innocence%as%a%teenager%and%young%
woman%attracted%me,%but%as%the%years%go%by,%I%guess%I%long%to%see%her%grow%into%a%woman%who%is%
not%embarrassed%by%her%needs.%Al%
In%a%world%where%there%is%so%much%temptation%facing%men,%I%think%it’s%important%for%wives%to%
know%when%to%stop%being%“wife%and%mom”%and%start%being%a%“lover.”%Buck%%
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