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Can&you&believe&we’re&on&our&last&day&of&the&Romance&Challenge!&I’d&love&to&see&the&look&on&
your&husband’s&face&today!&I’m&thinking&Cheshire&Cattish.&Let’s&hop&into&our&last&challenge.&
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Do&you&want&to&know&what&your&man&desires&more&than&anything?&This&may&surprise&you,&but&
he&wants&to&see&you%sexually&fulfilled.&He&longs&to&see&you&respond&to&him.&He&wants&to&know&
that&he&is&the&one&who&can&take&you&to&the&moon&and&back&with&a&crescendo&or&ecstasy&that&HE&
created.&&
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He&longs&to&know&that&he&is&a&great&lover.&As&Dr.&Kevin&Leman&states,&“There&is¬&a&man&on&the&
planet&who&doesn’t&want&to&know&he&can&make&his&woman&go&crazy&in&bed.”^15 &“Even&more&than&
your&husband&wants&to&have&sex&with&you&for&his&own&sexual&relief,&the&truth&is,&he&wants&to&
please&you&even&more&than&he&wants&to&be&pleased.&It&might&seem&like&it’s&all&about&him,&but&
what&he&really&wants,&emotionally,&is&to&see&how&much&you&enjoy&the&pleasure&he&can&give&you.&
If&he&fails&to&do&that,&for&any&reason,&he’ll&end&up&feeling&inadequate,&lonely,&and&unfulfilled.&
Most&men&want&to&be&their&wives’&heroes.”^16 %
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A&husband&is&looking&for&fulfillment,¬&accommodation.&Simply&put,&a&husband&is&sexually&
fulfilled&when&his&wife&is&fulfilled.&If&he&knows&that&she&is¬&enjoying&sex,&but&only&trying&to&
placate&him,&he&will¬&be&fulfilled.&Sex&may&happen,&he&may&finish&what&was&begun,&but&he&will&
have&unfinished&business&in&his&heart.&He&will&feel&like&a&consumer,¬&a&lover.&&
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I&want&you&and&your&husband&to&try&an&experiment.&Find&a&piano&bench&and&sit&side&by&side&
before&the&ivory&keys.&Once&you&get&comfortable,&place&both&your&hands&on&the&keys&and&play&a&
melodious&duet,&complete&with&highs&and&lows,&rises&and&falls,&sharps&and&flats.&
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(^15) Leman, Sheet Music, 52.
(^16) Ibid., p.11.