trust it essentially desires to confirm its inherent knowledge and thus also its
faith in Allah; this is to say, its ‘common sense’. If the babe’s cry is not
answered or remains poorly attended, trust is not confirmed and the normally
formed heterosexual child will tend towards deviancy one way or another in
its sexuality. Our Prophet was known as al-Mukminim , the ‘Trustworthy’ for
this reason. So important is trust (amana) to the new
soul’s experience of its earthly life, and so deeply
runs any 'lack of trust', that with trust all virtue is
possible but without it all deviation and evil is
inevitable, and it is this verity that lies at the root
of all mind-control conditioning.
Fear, Trust & Touch
The infant is overwhelmed by helplessness so it therefore seeks assurance it
will come to no harm because it naturally fears separation from Providence.
Not that the infant consciously fears hell, but more correctly speaking the
babe fears separation from what is good which directly infers God and can be
summed up in one word: Abandonment.
Abandonment is the greatest fear of a married woman. Should a wife be
replaced or divorced, her abandonment is likened unto hell because it
exposes her to ridicule and represents disgrace, dishonor, a loss of dignitas
and the removal of several benefits as follows:
- communal approbation and self-respect;
- authentic authority or legitimacy;
- it equates with failure as a mature female, representing the loss of
decorum as a sexualized creature who has become incapable of
keeping her mate; - of sexual pleasure;
- of intimacy;
- of security, provision and protection;
- of guidance;
- of Allah’s Grace and Approbation;
This represents the very same removal of all peace and security which Allah