as preserved by the Freemasonic concept of Baphomet. The effect of this
propaganda on rising divorce rates and social harmony is ominous. Similar
efforts are made in the East with comparable results as rising divorce rates
demonstrate. Currently in Malaysia — the flagship of Islamic Pluralism —
they are approaching a disgraceful 70% among Muslims.
Divinely blessed civic power arises out of unity subsequent to matching
human weaknesses with complementary strengths. It appears that Allah
purposely gave differing asset and liabilities to men and women so they would
unite in marriage in order to help each other overcome their deficits by
attaining virtue via the collective implementation of collective strength to
Islam’s deen. The call of the wife to her husband is therefore a plea for
assistance and a directive from Allah for the man to listen and receive both
her counsel as well as her charming consolations. When the husband hears
his wife and attends to her concerns, her own sexual response system is fully
activated so that when he calls her to bed she will eagerly minister to his
needs and desires. This is because the woman‘s sexual response system is
divinely endowed with a social consciousness that demands his attentive
ministry to her needs and those of the family and proximal community in
order to assure her safety, without which she cannot relax and enjoy
intercourse out of fear. This fundamental reality of marriage is purposely
placed in opposition to the man‘s goal-oriented hunter/warrior instinct that
drives him out of the home and into the world. Her call awakens him in
order to direct his consciousness towards piety: the taqua and adab (Islamic
etiquette) practiced within the microcosmic social milieu of her consoling
charms and general family relations. Everyone is looking to see the post-
connubial smile on her face, the after-glow of bliss that extends this element
of as-Sakkinah to all in the community. A man is judged by the presence or
absence of his wife’s contentment.
The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The one most perfect in
his faith is he whose conduct is best and the best amongst you is he who
behaves best towards his wife."