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ASPECTS OF POWER

AGGRESSION
Aggression is the third element that determines how comfortable
you will be with power. This series of questions should help you
to understand your degree of aggression.


The Movie Line


It's supposed to be a great flick, and you've been waiting for
weeks for it to come to town. You're on line to get your ticket,
and what a line! Clear around the block. Then, when you turn
to see just how long the line is, some joker cuts in ahead of
you!

(A) You're really ticked off, but you're close enough to the front
of the line to get a seat, and why make a fuss? It will just
create an uncomfortable situation. Better forget it.
(B) Sure, there are plenty of seats and it probably doesn't make
any difference, but why should the jerk get away with it?
You don't say anything to him directly, but in a voice that
carries you tell the person behind you that bucking the
line is a pretty cheap trick, and most civilized people wouldn't
do it.

uncomfortable with power. The (C) type of person is the most
dominant, has the highest DQ, and will go after power whenever
possible.
The great majority falls into (B). They accept power, but won't
go after it. They resist dominance by others, but rarely try to be
dominant themselves.
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