If possible, get a friend to help you with the rest of this exercise. Go
through each value one at a time comparing it with every other one.
Each time you compare two values, place a tick next to the one that
is most important to you.To elaborate:
Compare value 1 and value 2, ticking the most important.
Compare value 1 and value 3, ticking the most important.
Compare value 1 and value 4, etc. all the way up to 1 and 12.
Go on to value 2.
Compare value 2 and value 3, ticking the most important.
Compare value 2 and value 4, ticking the most important.
Compare value 2 and value 5, etc. all the way up to 2 and 12.
Go on to value 3.
Compare value 3 and value 4, ticking the most important.
Compare value 3 and value 5, ticking the most important.
Compare value 3 and value 6, etc. all the way up to 3 and 12.
Go on to value 4.
Compare value 4 and value 5, ticking the most important.
Compare value 4 and value 6, ticking the most important.
Compare value 4 and value 7, etc. all the way up to 4 and 12.
Continue doing the same throughout....When you are done, count the ticks to determine your most
important values. Do not be stressed if you are surprised by the
outcome. This often happens!How do you know if what you’re doing is aligned with your values? Simply take note
of your feelings. Uncomfortable feelings are a good indicator that you’re doing
something that compromises your values. Feeling focused, connected and calm
often indicates that what you’re doing is aligned with your values. More detective
work required!
Journal work
Consider the society in which you operate. Write down 20 to 30
values of your society. Then, consider your value system. Which of
your values align with those of your society? Which ones don’t?
What outcomes do you experience that arise from the difference in
your value systems?