Magic Motivation

Key ideas

 Nurture your relationships and they’ll grow well.

 When something goes wrong in a relationship, decide what went

wrong, WITHOUT BLAMING THE OTHER PERSON, and take steps

to fix it.

 Both parties contribute to the state of a relationship.

 Blame has no positive effect at all.

 Blaming others affects your motivation levels negatively.

 Remember that you have absolutely no control over anyone else

so when you blame someone else, you cannot have any power

over the situation.

 Having no power to change something will affect your motivation

levels negatively.

 The real truth is that you are choosing to be in a position where

you have no power.

 Learn to acknowledge your role in creating the situation. Only

when you can acknowledge your part in it, can you start making

permanent shifts.

 When you feel empowered, motivation comes to you.

 Look at what you’re putting into your world.

 The universe is like a mirror – it reflects back at you what you are

putting into your life.

 YOU are the constant in your world.

 If things aren’t working, look inside yourself and change how you

are being in the world.

 You have enormous power to create the world the way you want

it to be – you do this by being accountable for your input into it.

 A person with low self-esteem will find it extremely difficult to be

motivated.