The Definitive Book of Body Language

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The Definitive Book of Body Language

This can make the jury feel that the lawyer is being insincere
or pompous. If a lawyer wanted to appear humble, he should
approach the jury with his coat open, with open palms and
stoop forward to appear smaller.

'You seem like an intelligent, honest man,' the
lawyer said smugly. 'I'd return the compliment, sir,'
said the witness. 'But I'm under oath.'

Thumbs sometimes protrude from the back pockets (see
below) as if the person is trying to hide their dominant atti-
tude. Women were rarely seen using Thumb Displays until the
1960s when they began to wear trousers and take on more
authoritative roles in society.

Thumb displays revealing
confident, authoritative attitudes

Arms-Folded-with-Thumbs-Pointing-Upwards is another
common thumb cluster. This is a double signal, showing a
defensive or negative attitude (folded arms), plus a superior
attitude revealed by the thumbs. The person using this cluster
usually gestures with his thumbs when he talks, and rocks on
the balls of his feet when standing.

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