Personal Story
car accident. Immediately after that my grandparents moved
into my house. This put my grandpa in position as dad for
me. My grandparents gave me strength and they tried to
replace my parents. They gave me love. They bought
everything I wanted. I knew that my grandparents are not
my parents. They did all this so that it was not so painful for
me to be without my true mom and dad. I was generally a
very happy and loved child. My cousin Yvonne helped me
through the difficult period of adolescence.
My grandparents were already in their 70’s. It was
difficult for them to understand a teenager. Yvonne always
pushed me forward and said that even if I fail at something I
have to try again and never to give up. Thanks to her
determination I finished high school. She believed in me
and I did not want to disappoint her. The biggest shock and
pain for me was the moment when my grandmother died.
I had to be strong for my grandfather who was without a
companion. He was devastated after the loss. With the
support of my aunt and cousin, we survived the critical
period. I had no idea that this was just the beginning of my
suffering. A month later my grandfather died. I was 21
years old. I was terrified. I was alone in the house full of
bitter and sweet memories. That was too painful for me.
Although I had family support, I could not face the
challenge. Two years later I decided to sell the house and
bought a small apartment.
My cousin Yvonne had a great idea. She told me that I
should get a Visa and fly to the United States. I was afraid
to leave because Poland was my home. With her gentle
persuasion saying that home is where we are, I went to
apply for a Visa. The next month we left for America
together. I am grateful that she persuaded me because now
my dream has come true. Over time the pain of losing loved
ones became smaller. I know my grandparents are smiling
at me from above and they are glad for my happiness.
Finally I am living the fullness of life and enjoying this