who are upbeat, positive, happy, and confident. We need to
bite our tongue more and say good things more often.
Obviously, if you are only going to say good things, then this
cuts out back-biting, gossiping, mouthing off, telling tales,
being rude about people, and complaining (you are allowed to
point out defects or problems but in a constructive way). And
that could leave you with a big gap to fill.
Before opening your mouth, try—just for a week—to find
something good to say. It’s one of those things that will amaze
you by how it improves your life, but don’t take my word for
it—just try it. And if all else fails, and you really can’t think of
anything positive to say at all, then don’t say anything. At all.
THIS, MY DEAR,
IS WHAT THEY CALL
AN ADVENTURE.