WelcominG BelonGinG Practice
This is a form of self-nurture in which we emotionally re-parent ourselves to
improve sovereignty and self worth, giving birth to our “true” form. I would say
all children born into patriarchal families where the mother relied on the husbands
wage packet would need to have this practice. In the patriarchal system children
were born as extensions of the parents fear and egos, they were not seen as spirits
in themselves...their needs where not “felt” as the parents played out their dual
roles in “coordinated opposition” as it were. Any woman that relies on a man for
livelihood of her and her children is bound to be dissociated...in somewhat of a
parasympathetic freeze...because she cannot speak her mind or point her life in her
own direction...she thus becomes more infantile and helpless herself. Babies are
then not blessings born of self actualized people but are burdensome chattels born
to ensure the mothers dependent livelihood. The whole setup relies on and breeds
the unconsciousness abdication of self-responsibility, autonomy and freedom.
Economically this situation has changed in the last 50 years, but the fall out from
this kind of breeding continues.
If we could start a movement of widespread Welcoming Belonging Practice
things might shift, by helping us move into a mode of conscious incarnation,
rather than living in the fallout of a social train wreak. This practice has elements of
rebirthing in it, but it is specifically for restitution to the indignant unseen infantile
ego/heart/spirit from conception to 5 years. I imagine that there is perhaps a music
background. The tapes or talking are heard while the individual lies down under a
blanket, not in fetal position or the person will be too unconscious to take much
in. It would be good in a session with a therapist to actually do the auditing of what
it was like for the individual from 5 back to 0 first...and then do the reframing. Of
course this type of thing could be conducted in groups with individuals swapping
roles.
With Welcoming Belonging Practice the process starts out with ones first day at
school, and this is rescripted to care for the real fears of the child, then the process
regresses back through the years back to conception itself, and the whole drama
is replayed to portray the most loving, caring, attentive scenario one can think of.
With WBT we give ourselves permission to live in our own right...that we are
not just extensions of family and society, or worth only what security we give; that
we have a God given right to a life that is “self-determined” prior to family, state
or species. We can undertake this reprogramming by ourselves, with a partner,
in groups or we could make up an audiotape. Some of the things it will heal are
infantile pride, defensiveness, envy, approval seeking, borderline disorder, leaky
boundaries, codependency, lack of connectivity, lack of place and purpose, inability
to trust, dys-intimacy, infantile-bio-anger at rejection, and would probably cure
compulsivity ie: disincarnation, and neurotic armoring etc...
We must first feel worthy ourselves, before the world will
treat us with respect.