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C6 EZ RE THE WASHINGTON POST.FRIDAY, APRIL 1 , 2022


ACROSS
1 Came out in
the wash?
5 Support pieces


10 Execs’ wall
displays


14 Houston
campus


15 Fiddlers
follower,
in verse
16 Soft drink
opener?
17 Small step


18 Flight
maintenance
word
19 Worldwide:
Abbr.
20 Lists for patrons


22 Toucan’s pride
23 I.M. Pei alma
mater
24 Like much love


26 Word with
board or
mentioned
28 Sudden flight


29 Actress
Longoria


30 Came out
suddenly


32 Romance
novelist
Hilderbrand
34 Natural climber


36 SUV part, briefly
37 Architectural
marker, or what
can be found
four times in
this puzzle


41 WWII org. with
a Pallas Athene
symbol
42 __ Paulo


43 Govt. agents
46 Some surfers


50 “It depends”
components


52 Give-go link
53 Ain’t like it
oughta be?
54 “Please
remind me”
57 VII x CCC


58 Ottoman
honorific


59 Hall of Famer
who was
a Yankee
manager
and a Mets
coach


60 Canapé delicacy


62 Astonished
64 Keeps out
65 Yard, for one
66 67-Across sites
67 Rockies state
68 Modern
navigation
aids
69 Court orders
70 Ward of “FBI”

DOWN
1 Berry bush
2 True to the
original
3 Like Paul
Samuelson’s
field
4 Rollout
5 Criterion:
Abbr.
6 Key ending
words?
7 Archangel of
repentance
8 Falls into ruin
9 Try to locate
10 Defunct AT&T
rival
11 Witticism
12 Still at it
13 Like roads in
winter, at times

21 Maritime
pronoun
25 Expose
26 Road runner
27 Spiner of “Star
Trek: TNG”
31 Postpone
33 Bad sort of
situation
35 Annual arrivals:
Abbr.
38 Tirade

39 Subtitle
of Enya’s
Grammy-
winning
“Orinoco Flow”
40 Settle in a new
country
44 Always there
45 Boris’ sidekick
46 Old Native
American
currency beads

47 Luxury fashion
name
48 More than busy
49 Seal on a ring
51 Blubber
55 Capital at
12,000 feet
56 Picture puzzle
58 Intentions
61 Summer at the
Sorbonne
63 Start to snow?

LA TIMES CROSSWORD By Jeffrey Wechsler


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Dear Carolyn:
Several times in
the past few years,
leadership roles
and spots in
selective groups
that I really
wanted have gone
to other people.
For the most part,
I am at peace with this; I had my
grieving period, and I try my
hardest not to let it affect my
day-to-day life. However, it is
very difficult to watch the people
who were chosen for these
positions not doing a better job
than I know I could do, and not
appreciating what they have
been given as much as I would,
when I know I was just as
qualified, if not more; worked
just as hard, if not more; and
wanted the positions just as
much, if not more.
I feel guilty that I am having
these snide thoughts — these
people are perfectly nice and
have done nothing wrong to me
personally. I don’t want to be the
kind of person who harbors
grudges and stays bitter over
these things. How do I move on,
so I can stop feeling so
miserable?
— Feeling Overlooked

Feeling Overlooked: Could be
worse! They could succeed!
Still, I’m not sure there is a
cure for watching someone prove
you should have gotten their job.
Schadenfreude leaves a guilty

aftertaste, as you rightly point
out. Dammit.
Corrections — where they say
“oops” and hand the job to you
after all — are rare, if not
unicorns.
Reframing is a great option
when your life takes a rewarding
turn after a rejection, allowing
you to credit the rejection for
making the good thing possible.
But it is a bit like waiting for
your life to happen.
Averting your eyes is a strong,
underrated approach — I get so
few chances to counsel denial! —
but only when used sparingly.
Leaving everywhere puts you
nowhere.
Logic, maybe? I’m all for it: It’s
true that you don’t know, can’t
know, whether you deserved the
job equally or wanted it more, or
would have done it better,
worked as hard or appreciated it
more. It’s also true that selective
positions generally could be
filled many times over by
qualified candidates, so someone
deserving almost always goes
home empty-handed, you
included. It’s true that people
choosing candidates are flawed
and can make mistakes. It’s true
that accepting this and moving
on and remaining open to new
opportunities is the only way to
live fully and not go nuts. And
win one eventually. Yay logic. But
now try to tell your feelings how
great logic is.
Time and maturity are cures
since they ease both

competitiveness and the
disappointment of losing, but if
“You’ll feel better in a few
decades” is the only cure, then
there is no cure.
Creating your niche, then
owning it? Yes!! Also slow.
So I have this: If you can’t beat
it, dilute it.
When your nagging
disappointments and the next
competition are all you have,
they’re all you think about. When
you have other pursuits besides
competitive work/school,
however, ones that aren’t subject
to judges or a selection
committee or aimed at a prize —
when they’re entirely your own
— then your life will have less
room for these disappointments
to settle in.
Such interests must be
genuine to be effective, but you
can prod them along, whether
it’s cultivating hobbies or
immersing yourself in friends or
singing badly to your playlists in
the car. Anything but notches in
the “success” belt. I ask you, does
your dog care that you lost out to
a lesser candidate? No, he does
not. (Good dog.) Full lives can
absorb a lot.

Write to Carolyn Hax at
[email protected]. Get her
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Even if you deserved that promotion,

there are ways to let that grudge go

Carolyn
Hax

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