Grief and Loss Across the Lifespan, Second Edition

170 Grief and Loss Across the Lifespan

as was previously common and customary. This continued semi-dependence

on family of origin means that maturational losses related to moving into

independence are postponed and yet the emerging adult has legal and other

responsibilities of adulthood. This betwixt and between life stage can mean

that emerging adults may mourn their dependence as well as their indepen-

dence. Their strong sense of a “Just World” or a belief that one can control the

events in one’s life may interfere with processing illness or grief until those

illusions have been addressed. Meanwhile, when emerging adults die, the

nascent achievements and flourishing hopes and dreams for their adulthood

die with them. Work with this age group seems to mirror typical approaches

to adults (talk therapy) but is enhanced by adding some of the activities and

props (pictures) that help with teens and other younger populations.

Discussion Questions

1. How does the economic environment both positively and negatively impact
   the stage of emerging adulthood?


2. Why might emerging adults have greater susceptibility to the problems of
   cumulative losses?


3. What are the pros and cons of moving through emerging adulthood more
   rapidly and establishing work, financial independence, intimate partner,
   and family, before the age of 25?