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Good Responses


They get flustered when you kiss them, and they don’t
kiss you back but they smile at you.

Tip: They were obviously caught by surprise, but are
happy that you kissed them.

When kissing is not appropriate


Before you go ahead and kiss someone, you have to ask yourself: is it an appropriate situation to kiss this
person and is the timing appropriate?

If you don’t think about this, you may lack sensitivity towards the person you are trying to kiss and may be left
with a red face or with the chance of rejection, embarrassment, ruined friendships and hurt feelings.

Just because you have feelings for someone doesn’t mean they have to feel the same way back. You can’t
just kiss someone because you want to, especially if they have already let you know they just want to remain
friends. It may ruin your friendship because they’ll feel you don’t respect them. They may feel awkward around
you because they’ll wonder if you will do it again. If someone has told you they just want to be friends, they are
setting boundaries. If you want to maintain that friendship, you will need to respect those boundaries. It may
also make other friends feel uncomfortable around you if they think you might try to kiss them, too.

Never kiss someone if they are in a relationship with someone else. Not only is this highly inappropriate, but
there is a sure chance you will get rejected by them, which will only end up bruising your ego, confidence and
reputation. You might also get a punch in the face by their partner. It’s not really worth the risk.

Kissing in public is acceptable to a point. A kiss on the cheek or a quick peck on the lips is okay but a full make-
out session will not only embarrass the person you are kissing but also others around you. It is rude to people
around you because it makes them feel uncomfortable.
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