Page- How to do it step by step
If it is your first kiss ever, here’s what you need to do. (Please note that although this is written from the male
perspective, it applies equally well to women!)
Prepare yourself beforehand so you aren’t too nervous.
Get close to the person you want to kiss, maybe by touching, cuddling, or playful tussling. Don’t make it
too obvious; otherwise, there will be a little awkwardness between you. When it does come to the second
you want to kiss her, you want to ensure you aren’t too far away.
Now quickly de-stress.
Look at her in the eyes to make sure you both feel the same. If she doesn’t, she will pull away now. Looking
at her also lets her know what’s going on so she doesn’t get a fright and get flustered.
Look at her mouth so you know exactly where you are aiming for. Don’t be fooled by how it’s done in the
movies and shut your eyes. People in real life kiss with open as well as closed eyes, and unless you see,
there is a chance you may miss! It also means you don’t have to have eye contact any longer, which is good
because long amounts of eye contact can make people nervous.
Tilt your head to one side.
Open your lips slightly. Holding her by the back of the neck, move into her and KISS HER. Kiss either her
bottom or her top lip. This way the lips get locked together naturally. Holding her by the back of the neck
gives you control and will make her feel comfortable because it seems like you know what you are doing.
You probably want to close your eyes as soon as your lips meet or whenever you feel comfortable. You will
know when the right time is, and your eyes will seem to close by themselves.
Slightly open-mouthed kisses are better than closed-mouth kisses, as parted lips feel more comfortable
and make you feel closer. A slightly open mouth is better than a completely open mouth. It’s kind of like
a build up to a proper kiss, to get a feel for each other and feel comfortable.
Pull away a little to allow one another to catch your breath, absorb the sensations, and feel closer. Then kiss
her again, a little more passionately, with your mouth a little wider. Repeat until you’re comfortable.
Now’s the biggy!
Lightly, softly and slowly, start moving your tongue in and out of their mouth, massaging her tongue
with yours.Don’t forget to look into your partner’s eyes after your first kiss to make sure she wants to continue. If she
feels that the kiss was inappropriate or doesn’t want to continue, she will pull back. Stop if her body feels
stiff or it feels like she’s not participating in the kisses, because those are signs she’s uncomfortable.
- Things to remember
Use lip balm regularly, as this will keep your lips in optimum kissable condition. Don’t use it in front of your
partner just before you kiss them if you want to make the moment look romantic and not planned!
Brush your teeth morning, noon and night. Also brush your tongue as it has bacteria that cause bad breath.
It would be scary to think you are kissing someone with yellow and brown teeth.
Chew gum and always have mints on hand.
Don’t kiss for too long and don’t feel guilty about taking a break to catch your breath and swallow. There
is nothing worse than kissing someone with a mouth full of saliva.