SEX + RELATIONSHIPSbut with no desire to plant a bomb under their
lives. You need that mutual understanding
of the need to be discreet and manage
expectations, knowing you both have a lot to
lose if feelings spin out of control.
When I joined the online service I wasn’t
ready to take things too far so I chose an option
called “Exotic Chat”, where you just email
back and forth with someone.
The irst guy I did this with was married.
Unlike me, he’d been meeting with other
members for sex. In our chats I would ask him
about those encounters and he would tell me
his stories in vivid detail.
There were no limits to where our chats
went. And sure, they soon turned sexual.
We knew what each other looked like by this
stage because you have the option of granting
someone access to your private gallery.
The chat is really about whetting the
appetite. You say what you would do to the
other person if they were with you. For us it
became explicit. Once I pleaded, “I need to feel
your tongue on me – let me sit on your face”.
Was it arousing? Absolutely! We started
exchanging photos. I sent him shots of my
cleavage and breasts. Finally, I sent a shot of
my vagina, with a inger inside me.
I’d get so hot from these exchanges that
I’d come home from work and basically rape
my husband. I’ve always been a full-on sexual
partner, so it wasn’t a total shock to him to
have me in that state. I’ve always pushed his
limits because he’s not one to try anything.
He’s not into any kink, which I get of on.
Other times I’d think about my secret
conversations while I touched myself. That
was electric. I had a whole new fantasy world
to visit whenever I liked.I stopped the chat when I became pregnant
with my irst child so I could focus on being a
mum. After a while, though, the old longings
returned and I started a new proile a few
months ago.I’D THINK ABOUT
MY SECRET
CONVERSATIONS
WHILE I TOUCHED
MYSELF. THAT
WAS ELECTRIC