CosmopolitanAustraliaJune2015 .

Q

My BF and I have a really great relationship,

but he and my BFF have amazing chemistry

• they agree on politics, read the same

books and have the same sense of humour.

I know I’m supposed to be happy they get

along so well, but I still feel jealous. Help!

A: Nobody wants to feel

like a third wheel in their

own relationship, but just

remember that he chooses

to be with you – not her.

And it’s probably because

you’re not exactly like him.

Your boyfriend and friend

might agree on politics

and books – that’s not so

rare. But that special spark

that really turns us on and

makes us want to be with

someone? That’s way more

mysterious and way more

important – and it’s the big

difference between a friend

and a lover.

Q: A GUY I WENT ON A FEW DATES

WITH BROKE THINGS OFF BY

TELLING ME I’M “MUCH TOO GOOD

FOR HIM AND DESERVE SOMEONE

BETTER”. I FEEL LIKE THAT’S JUST

SUCH A BS LINE. WHAT IS IT THAT

HE’S REALLY TRYING TO TELL ME?

A: You nailed it: The “someone better” line is complete

bullshit. He’s not breaking up with you because he

thinks he’s a Bieber-esque loser and you’re a Beyoncé-

like queen. That’s just his half-arsed way of softening

the blow – he doesn’t think you’re right for him, or he

doesn’t want to get more serious with you. Truth is, you

don’t deserve someone “better”; you deserve someone

who’s better for you.

Even sexy

minxes feel like

third wheels

sometimes.

Q: I really want my hook-up to talk dirtier to me

Mainly, I want him to use the “P” word. If I hint th

to him, will he be majorly weirded out?

A: There’s nothing weird about dirty talk, but if you want it you c

just drop hints. Smutty language is hot because it’s direct. So do

pussyfoot around. Lead by example. Tell him you want his “C” wo

Then tease him and tell him he can’t have your “P” word until he

the magic, filthy word. If that weirds him out, he’s the weirdo, noty

don’t deserve someone “better”; you deserve someone

I really want my hook-up to talk dirtier to me.

Mainly, I want him to use the “P” word. If I hint this

There’s nothing weird about dirty talk, but if you want it you can’t

just drop hints. Smutty language is hot because it’s direct. So don’t

pussyfoot around. Lead by example. Tell him you want his “C” word.

Then tease him and tell him he can’t have your “P” word until he says

the magic, filthy word. If that weirds him out, he’s the weirdo, not you.

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