Men\'s Health Malaysia - Jun 2017

54 JUNE 2017

GIRL NEXT DOOR

I met my
girlfriend
when I
went to
study in
America,
and we’re
still in
a stable long-distance
relationship three years
later. But then, after I came
back, I started talking
with my neighbour, which
has now grown into a
relationship. I still love my
girlfriend, and everyone
knows I’m still with her. But
I want both girls, and I can’t
make up my mind about
who to be with. Please
advise. (PS. they don’t
know about each other.)

• GABRIEL
  I’m gonna give it to you straight:
  don’t flatter yourself. You’re being
  selfish and not being fair to either

of these women. You say you know

your girlfriend is the one for you and

that you’re “in a stable long-distance

relationship”. Newsflash – this is not

what a stable relationship looks like!

It’s only stable because they don’t

know about each other, and if they

did, shit’s likely gonna hit the fan.

It’s time to end the deceit. Make a

decision, and do the right thing by

these women. They deserve better

than this.

My girlfriend

stopped

hanging out

with her

guy friends

because of my envy. But I

still hang out with my girl

friends, and she doesn’t

stop me from doing so.

Could she be unhappy

and not tell me about it?

• KAMARUL
  First things first: why are you imposing

these double standards on your

girlfriend? Examine the source of your

envy, and find it within yourself to

trust her to see her friends, regardless

of gender, just like she does you.

Secondly, if she isn’t communicating

with you, and you sense that she’s

unhappy, this is a red flag. Everybody

needs an outlet; help her find hers.

There’s a

girl that’s

interested

in me, but

I’m not

comfortable

that we share the same

surname. Is that weird?

• BENJAMIN
  You’re thinking waaaaay further ahead
  than the current situation demands.
  You say she’s interested in you, but
  are you interested in her? If not, then
  there’s no problem! If you are, then it
  depends how uncomfortable you are.
  If you really like her but you’re really

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concerned, and if it comes down

to it, there’s always genetic testing

available.

I’m a new

entrepreneur and

work’s been mad,

but most of my

dates just don’t

understand why

I’m always so

busy. How do I

communicate this?

• JAZLY
  I’m not going to lie: dating is going
  to be tough for a guy like you. Not
  because you’re unlikeable, but
  because so much of your time is
  occupied by your business. That’s
  perfectly fine – admirable, even. You
  will just need to find a girl who’s
  willing to see past that and appreciate
  the limited time you do have together.
  And once you do, the time you spend
  together will be even sweeter. Don’t
  give up on love just yet, tiger.

Sex & Relationships

I’m going on a vacation

with this girl I just met.

We agreed to spend time

with each other until she

returns home that’s in a

different country. What

do I do if I catch feelings?

• CHOON YEE
  Well, this also depends on the girl! If you develop
  feelings, you’re left with two choices: take action, or
  not. If you pick the former, you need to decide how
  to make it work (assuming she wants this too). If you
  don’t, or the feeling’s not mutual, then you’ll have to
  deal. But it’s okay – there are plenty of other fish in the
  sea that you go holidaying with.

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