WORDS
TAMARA DAVIS
STYLING
KRISTY KOUTSOGIANNIS
PHOTOGRAPHY
ARCHIE PRICE
HAIR & MAKEUP
JESSICA DIEZ @ ONENINETYNINE MANAGEMENT
MODEL
ADELE @ IMG AUSTRALIA
Unfollow me now if you
can’t deal with pimples,
hair, stretch marks...
- Petra Collins
When Maisie Williams wore
this terrifying face mask
When Lena Dunham
summed up our
vibe completely
When Anna
Kendrick did
this pose
media elicits
feelings of envy
and the distorted
belief that others
lead happier, more
successful lives”.
So that feeling of FOMO you get?
Tot a lly legit.
Changing the game
With that in mind, it’s refreshing to
see a new wave of online influencers
representing what it is to be a
girl – really and truly, with all our
imperfections on show – in an effort
to remind us that we’re human (and
that even Gigi doesn’t necessarily
wake up looking like Gigi...)
One such influencer is New York-
based photographer and writer Petra
Collins, who showcases her work
on Instagram. Think raw, unfiltered
portraits of girls doing what girls
do – hanging in their bedrooms on
their phones, bathed in the blue light
of a laptop, or picking at something
caught in their braces... and making
this activity look, well, beautiful
in its normalcy.
A caption on Collins’ own no-
makeup selfie reads: “Unfollow me
now if you can’t deal with pimples,
hair, stretch marks etc literally
anything that isn’t airbrushed. Coz
your negativity and ignorance isn’t
welcome on this insta and there’s
no room for more hate and shaming
here.” Collins continues, “This
is not just about me but about
all the amazing girls/women/
whatever I photograph that
deserve to be celebrated
and represented.” Amen to
that. And while there ain’t
nothing wrong with a
filter or quick Facetune
to make your pics
~fire~, we’re so down
with what Petra’s
getting at.
One of her muses
statement to her fans: “We live
in a society that literally profits
from our self doubt and insecurities,”
she shared.
Star Wars actress Daisy Ridley
riffed on this sentiment too, posting
a heavily filtered selfie with a poke at
the no-makeup-‘I-woke-up-like-this’
movement. “What people post is the
most filtered, most carefully chosen
and cleverly edited moments of their
lives,” she lamented.
Finding the balance
So with all that in mind, what next?
Well we’re not advocating that you
stop posting on social – that would be
no fun. Besides, seeking inspiration
from people you admire is awesome.
There’s nothing better than finding
that perfect snap that motivates
you to save up for a travel adventure
around the world, or screenshotting
your way to #outfitgoals IRL.
But it’s important to keep things
in perspective. Real talk: Alexis Ren’s
legs mostly come down to genes.
That fashion blogger’s trip to the
Greek islands was probably paid for
by a sponsor. And your life is truly
beautiful – even when it’s not totally
camera ready.
is 19-year-old plus-sized
model Barbie Ferreira, who
recently shared a close-up
of her stretch marks with
her 376,000 Instagram
followers along with the
caption, “...noticing how cute my
body can be despite lil changes”.
The response in the comments was
overwhelmingly positive, with girls
sharing how empowered Ferreira’s
realness made them feel.
As fan Lumozline wrote, “You
change how people look at the
industry you represent and you
change how people look at women and
themselves... How you can and will
change the lives of those with low self-
esteem and those battling themselves
to look like a Photoshop image, that’s
beautiful beyond measure”.
What Selena said
It’s what Selena Gomez was referring
to when she spoke at the American
Music Awards last year. Being the
most followed person on Instagram,
and no doubt one of the most admired
on the planet, had not brought her
happiness or gratification. “I had
to stop ’cause I had everything.
And I was absolutely broken inside,”
Selena revealed.
And with her break from the
spotlight came her turning point –
that she no longer felt the need to
seek that kind of approval. “I’m not
trying to get validation, nor do I need
it anymore,” Selena said, encouraging
her fans to share what was in their
hearts, rather than images of their
bodies, on social media.
It’s pretty powerful to see this
kind of authenticity finding
its way into celebs’ feeds.
In August 2015, PLL’s Sasha
Pieterse took to Insta to
share her story about weight
gain – and the public
shame she received as a
result – with a heartfelt
GF features
FIVE TIMES GOOFY
WAS THE NEW PRETTY
FIVE TIMES GOOFY
WAS THE NEW PRETTY
When Tavi and Rowan were
awkward-bestie-goals
When Sasha
Pieterse went cray
on set for PLL
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