DOUBLE THE
BUMS- AND FUN?
‘SOME NIGHTS
I’M 80 PER CENT
TRUTH SERUM.’Q: After our first
date, this guy told me
he’s only ready to be
friends. I’m a young,
single mum, and I
think that turned him
off. Is there any point
in talking to each
other further?
A: Only if you do
actually like the idea
of just being friends.
When a guy tells you
what he wants and how
he sees you, believe
him. We don’t usually
lie about that stuff.
And sure, some dudes
just don’t want to get
involved with a single
parent, as unfair as
that may be. But there
are so many other men
out there – and a lot of
them will want you,
kids and all.Q: I eat at the same
restaurant all the
time, and there’s
this one cute waiter
who constantly
checks in on me,
even when he doesn’t
have to. How should
I ask him out?A: The next time he
asks, ‘Can I bring you
anything else?’ Say,
‘Yes – your number.’ If
you’re not quite thatQ: WHY DO GUYS
FIND IT SO SEXY TO
WATCH TWO GIRLS
MAKE OUT?A: From blowout
buy-one-get-one-
free sales to double-
stuffed Oreos, we
all love things that
bring us pleasure.
And for some men,
watching girl-on-girl
action is, simply put,
fantasy math. The
typical guy will get
twice as aroused by
twice as many girls
doing something
sexual, like kissing.
He can get turned
on just thinking
about it... so to
witness it in person
is even hotter.Q: MY FIANCÉ GOT DRUNK ONE NIGHT
AND TOLD ME THAT HE DIDN’T LOVE ME
ANYMORE. HE NOW CLAIMS IT WAS THE
BOOZE AND COLD FEET TALKING. BUT DO
YOU THINK HE WAS TELLING THE TRUTH?A: Hmm... it’s hard to say how serious
this is. Several tequilas in, he may have
blurted out the truth – or this may be a
very exaggerated version of those cold
feet. Either way, don’t let him blame it on
the alcohol and brush you off. Force him to
talk. Say, ‘We’re getting married and it won’t
always be perfect. We need to be able to
talk about tough stuff that comes up if we
are going to make it. What you said hurt me
deeply, and I need to know what you are
feeling. So tell me: what’s really going on?’Before you judge
us guys for being so
base, consider this:
PornHub, an online
adult video site,
recently revealed
the most viewed
category among
its female users
is lesbian, closely
followed by gay
male. Of course,
this site doesn’t
simply stop there;
it shows a whole
lot more than two
women or men just
kissing. But I say we
should take this as
more evidence of
just how hot these
make-outs can be- for any gender
that happens to be
watching.
Hill is a
contributing
writer for US
Cosmopolitan.bold, leave him a little
something extra when
you’re paying the bill- like a note with your
name, number, and the
words: ‘Here’s another
tip. Call me.’ Very few
guys would not be into
that move. #
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