2019-09-24 Femina

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tries to ensure I orgasm before he does,” she
states. However, don’t go by Singh’s opinions
alone. We have the numbers to prove it.
According to the Skyn Condoms survey, 46 per
cent of millennials preferred the missionary,
and it’s the second most-popular sexual
position among millennials and Gen-Z.

You go, cowgirl
The girl on top is an undeniably pleasurable
position because it allows you to control the
pace of each thrust, and has the added benefit of
stimulating the clitoris. This is also a sure-shot
way to ensure maximum penetration, sending
you spiralling out of control. Singh comments,
“Sometimes I like to be in control of my own
pleasure, and my partner doesn’t mind it. It allows
us both to feel a little powerful. Besides, when
I can control the pace, I can also control the depth
of penetration. Plus, I get to watch my partner
enjoy the act too. In fact, I like straddling him on
the couch while he’s almost slouching and I can
spread my legs wide enough.” There’s no denying
that you get maximum pleasure, and he gets an
unrivalled view. You can even try it in reverse. It’s
a win-win.

In bloom
The lotus position takes the cake for sexiness and
is ideal for women who have trouble achieving
orgasm. “I love how intimate the lotus feels.
I can kiss my partner and get a lot of grind
action, too. It’s the best,” says Mohan. If that’s
not all, Vatsyayana, the creator of the Kama
Sutra, believed that if a relationship was to truly
blossom, men need to be unselfish and altruistic.
“While I may not read books like the Kama
Sutra, it’s sort of common knowledge that men
need to understand what their partner desires in
order to ensure a pain-free and exciting session.
Lubrication is key, and for me, the lotus offers
great stimulation,” Mohan explains.

Altered 69
One can’t deny that the 69 position is awkward.
Why? For starters, women are face-deep in their
man’s genitals; they’re trying to concentrate on
doing a good job while also attempting to focus
on their own pleasure. Raghav Dogra*, 34-year-
old Bangalore-based entrepreneur, says, “Men
find the 69 a lot more pleasurable, but in my
experience, it’s caused my partner to gag. It gets
exhausting after a while.” He goes on to explain
that to ensure equal enjoyment for both, they’ve

tried a variation of the position. “Instead of having
her on top of you, lie astride of each other. It will
take the pressure off of her jaw and ensure you’re
at a comfortable angle. With less head bobbing,
there is a lot more fun to be had.” For a woman
who doesn’t orgasm easily, this variation might
just get the job done. Dr Mundada believes that
the female orgasm is easier to achieve when there
is proper stimulation. “Patience is key! It takes
time, trial and error, and open communication
with your partner before he learns just the right
way to hit the sweet spot.”
Of course, we don’t need to remind you that
foreplay goes a long way in achieving orgasm.
Don’t be afraid to take your time. And most
importantly, don’t put too much pressure on
yourself to orgasm through vaginal penetration.
Focus on enjoying the moment and do what it
takes to get you where you’d want to go!

VATSYAYANA, THE CREATOR OF THE KAMA
SUTRA, BELIEVED THAT IF A RELATIONSHIP
WAS TO TRULY BLOSSOM, MEN NEED TO
BE UNSELFISH AND ALTRUISTIC

Don't be afraid to take initiative

ALL ABOUT YOU passion


PHOTOGRAPHS: 123RF

tries to ensure I orgasm before he does,” she
states. However, don’t go by Singh’s opinions
alone. We have the numbers to prove it.
According to the Skyn Condoms survey, 46 per
cent of millennials preferred the missionary,
and it’s the second most-popular sexual
position among millennials and Gen-Z.

You go, cowgirl
The girl on top is an undeniably pleasurable
position because it allows you to control the
pace of each thrust, and has the added benefit of
stimulating the clitoris. This is also a sure-shot
way to ensure maximum penetration, sending
you spiralling out of control. Singh comments,
“Sometimes I like to be in control of my own
pleasure, and my partner doesn’t mind it. It allows
us both to feel a little powerful. Besides, when
I can control the pace, I can also control the depth
of penetration. Plus, I get to watch my partner
enjoy the act too. In fact, I like straddling him on
the couch while he’s almost slouching and I can
spread my legs wide enough.” There’s no denying
that you get maximum pleasure, and he gets an
unrivalled view. You can even try it in reverse. It’s
a win-win.

In bloom
The lotus position takes the cake for sexiness and
is ideal for women who have trouble achieving
orgasm. “I love how intimate the lotus feels.
I can kiss my partner and get a lot of grind
action, too. It’s the best,” says Mohan. If that’s
not all, Vatsyayana, the creator of the Kama
Sutra, believed that if a relationship was to truly
blossom, men need to be unselfish and altruistic.
“While I may not read books like the Kama
Sutra, it’s sort of common knowledge that men
need to understand what their partner desires in
order to ensure a pain-free and exciting session.
Lubrication is key, and for me, the lotus offers
great stimulation,” Mohan explains.

Altered 69
One can’t deny that the 69 position is awkward.
Why? For starters, women are face-deep in their
man’s genitals; they’re trying to concentrate on
doing a good job while also attempting to focus
on their own pleasure. Raghav Dogra*, 34-year-
old Bangalore-based entrepreneur, says, “Men
find the 69 a lot more pleasurable, but in my
experience, it’s caused my partner to gag. It gets
exhausting after a while.” He goes on to explain
that to ensure equal enjoyment for both, they’ve

tried a variation of the position. “Instead of having
her on top of you, lie astride of each other. It will
take the pressure off of her jaw and ensure you’re
at a comfortable angle. With less head bobbing,
there is a lot more fun to be had.” For a woman
who doesn’t orgasm easily, this variation might
just get the job done. Dr Mundada believes that
the female orgasm is easier to achieve when there
is proper stimulation. “Patience is key! It takes
time, trial and error, and open communication
with your partner before he learns just the right
way to hit the sweet spot.”
Of course, we don’t need to remind you that
foreplay goes a long way in achieving orgasm.
Don’t be afraid to take your time. And most
importantly, don’t put too much pressure on
yourself to orgasm through vaginal penetration.
Focus on enjoying the moment and do what it
takes to get you where you’d want to go!

VATSYAYANA, THE CREATOR OF THE KAMA
SUTRA, BELIEVED THAT IF A RELATIONSHIP
WAS TO TRULY BLOSSOM, MEN NEED TO
BE UNSELFISH AND ALTRUISTIC

Don't be afraid to take initiative
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