WHERE TO WED
Not sure where to start? Here are those
all-important ceremony details...
T
he first thing to do is sit
down with your fiancéand talk openly about the
kind of day you want. The mainceremony options are:
1
CHURCH OF ENGLANDYo u
may have to attend a numberof Sunday services beforehand.
The marriage can be authorised bycalling banns on three consecutive
Sundays three months before theday, or by obtaining a common
licence. Church fees are from £415,with extra costs for choir, organ,
etc. In Scotland, banns aren’tnecessary, but 15 days’ notice must
be given at a register office.2
ROMAN CATHOLIC
Take your baptism and
confirmation certificates toyour priest at least six months
before if one of you is unbaptisedthen the priest needs to give
permission. You may have to
attend marriage preparation talksand Mass for six weeks before
your wedding day. Visit your localsuperintendent registrar to give
notice and obtain your marriagelicence. Fees vary.
3
JEWISHYou’ll need one
application for your localregister office and one for the
religious authorities.4
CIVIL CEREMONYBook
your slot at a register office
less than 12 months andmore than 17 days in advance.
You must have been resident inEngland/Wales for seven days
before visiting your local registrarto give notice, and the fee is £35
each to give notice. A register officewedding costs £45. If the ceremony
is held elsewhere, you’ll need to payfor a registrar to attend.
Baptists’ Union 01235 517 700Church of England 020 7898 1000Church of Scotland 0131 225 5722Greek Archdiocese 020 7723 4787Humanist
Association 020 7324 3060Jewish Council 020 8203 6311Marriage Care
(Catholic) 0800 389 3801Methodist Church 020 7486 5502United Reform
Church 020 7916 2020General Register Offices:England and Wales 0300 123 1837Guernsey 01481 725 277Jersey 01534 441 335Northern Ireland 0300 200 7890Scotland 0131 314 4447Yo u a n d yo u r fi a n c é m u s t b eat least 16 to be legally married.
In England and Wales, if eitherof you is under 18 years of age,
then you must have your parentor guardian’s permission. In
Scotland you don’t need parentalpermission if you are over 18.Youmustnotbecloselyrelated
to each other and you must bothbe free to marry.
The marriage must takeplace in legal premises, such
as a register oice, religiousvenue or a licensed venue.The marriage must take place
in the presence of a registraror oicial.
Two witnesses must bepresent who are old enough to
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