Dear Reader,
So much happens over a year—birthdays, celebrations, holidays, work schedules,
school routines, exams, visitors, medical hiccups, fitness plans, diet flops, good
news, bad news—and poof, before you know, the year comes to an end. During the
holiday season, you start all over with resolutions and plans for the next year, and
the whole cycle begins again.
We also find ourselves pondering over what was done and what could have been
done differently in the year that passed by. So immersed are we in routine chores
and daily duties that we regret the loss of a whole year, one that had been kicked off
with promises and plans.
How can you change this vicious cycle?
How about starting small by promising just one thing to yourself? It
could be anything--from signing up for a diet plan (and sticking to
it), writing a book (and finishing it), or joining a course (and getting
a certificate for it). At the end of the year, if you can talk about one
thing that gave you a sense of achievement or accomplishment that
year—check the box, as they say—then you’ve done your bit in
making that whole year worthwhile for yourself.
This thought occurred to me eight years ago when I turned 40. There
was so much on my list of things to do, and I realized life was just passing
me by. So, I vowed that every December when I sit with family, I will tell them
of one thing that I accomplished that year. In other words, I wanted to make sure
I did something for myself every year. Not for the family or my work or the world, just
for myself.
And so I did. It began with getting a tattoo on my arm the first year to cover a scar that
has bothered me since childhood. The second year I went away to spend a month in
Mysore to get a yoga teacher training certificate. I did scuba diving in the Gold Coast the
third year, and started teaching yoga on a regular basis in the fourth year. In the
fifth year, I finished writing a book (that was published and launched the
next year). In the sixth year, I bid goodbye to financial journalism after
20 years and launched Yoga Journal Singapore. In the seventh year, I
got certified in Reiki level 1 and 2, and learned the art of healing with
touch. As I look forward to sitting with family this Christmas, I am
ready with my “What did I do in 2018” talk—a breathtaking trip to
the birthplace of yoga, Rishikesh. For next year, I want to learn yoga
therapy and go deeper with my practice of linking yoga with healing.
Send me a note on my personal email ([email protected])
if you want to share with me what you want to check off for next year.
I will save it, and I hope to receive your note again at the end of the year
telling me you checked it off. And then, we celebrate together!
Focus on just one thing that will make YOU happy, and make it happen. All else
will fall into place.
Happy holidays, and a wonderful new year!
Kavita Chandran
Editor-in-Chief
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ART DIRECTION: ANUJA BAGADE, PHOTOGRAPHER: HANZ LAI