Drum – 08 August 2019

(Nancy Kaufman) #1

http://www.drum.co.za8 AUGUST (^2019) | 7
‘Youdon’tjudgea person
becausethey’vesinned
differentlythanyou’
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thing I asked him was, ‘Did youd
it?’, and he said ‘no’. From thew
told me, I took his word forit.Hetold
me stuff about the case I didn’tknow.
“We were friends before we started
dating and he opened up to me.
“I was there for him and took care of
him. After a while I got to see the type of
person he is. I saw he’s a beautiful person
and I started falling in love.”
Cazo’s love for Brickz didn’t waver,
even after he was found guilty.
“I feel like all relationships have their
ups and downs and we’re just going
through a downhill right now. I can’t
leave him because times are hard right
now. We’ve had beautiful times together
so why should I leave him because he’s
going through a dark phase?”


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HE can’t wait for Brickz to
be released from jail so they
can spend time together.
“When it comes to us deal-
ing with him being in prison,
we take it a day at a time,”
Cazo says.
“I’m not a negative person. I have hope
he’ll come back, I don’t think he’s going
to be there all these years. I understand
the situation he’s in.”
The couple keep their love flaming
through love letters, and she’s also a
regular Sunday visitor to the prison.
“I get excited for Sundays, that’s our
favourite day.”
Dating someone behind bars is tough
but she knew what she was getting her-
self into before Brickz was convicted.
The lovebirds were staying together at

his grandmother’s house before he was
sentenced, Cazo reveals.
“There were times when he’d go away
for work, so I’m just handling this as if
he’s gone away. I think I’m a strong per-
son, it’s not like he has passed away.
He’s still alive, he is still healthy, we talk,
so it’s not like he’s never coming back.
“This is just a little phase we’re going
through.”
Cazo is a relatively unknown aspiring
rapper and model who’s been trying to
make a name for
herself in the in-
dustry.
But she’s not
hoping to gain
fam e from h er
relationship with
Brickz, sources close to the couple say.
She just loves him for him.
“She’s very quiet and has a humble
personality,” they tell DRUM. She doesn’t
focus on the fact that he’s a convicted
rapist.
According to one friend, Cazo is help-
ing Brickz work on himself while he’s
behind bars.
“They’re very close and they both are
really focused on protecting each other
from what people might say.”
Cazo is determined to stay strong for
her man. “He’s behind bars, so I try to
put myself in his shoes so I can be strong
for him. It won’t be any help to him if
I’m emotional and weak.
“I make sure that when I’m at home, I
stay busy so I don’t have to think too

uchaboutwhat he’s going
rough.”

RICKZ was found
guilty of raping his
then 17-year-old
niece at his rented
house in 2013. He
was sentenced to 15
arsin prison in 2017 and re-
ased on R80 000 bail in April
t year, pending an appeal
ainst his rape conviction.
Butafter losing the appeal he
s sent back to the Krugersdorp
sonto resume his sentence. He
l beeligible for half-sentence
olein 2023.
heknows everything there is
know about Brickz and the case
t ledto his incarceration, Cazo
s. “I know the true story behind
l. The reason I’m still with him
is becauseI love him.
“Idon’tknow why I should turn my
back on him when the whole world has
turned their back on him. You don’t
judge a person because they’ve sinned
differently than you.”
Her family and friends have been sup-
portive of their relationship. “There was
a time when I lost a few friends, but they
were closed-minded and can’t think for
themselves. The people who were in my
life part-time started working their
way out of it. I’m
happy for that be-
cause it helped
me grow.”
While he serves
his time in prison,
Brickz’s friends
tell us he is no longer angry about the
conviction. “He is at peace.”
Cazo is proud of her man. “Sipho is a
loving person. He has an open and pure
heart. He’s easily accessible and I think
that has been his weakness for a while.”
The time behind bars has taught him
that “sometimes people can do bad
things, but God will always turn a situa-
tion around for good”.
Brickz, meanwhile, is keeping busy by
working on music. Friends say the fallen
rapper is writing every day while also
making use of the prison’s educational
facilities.
“He’s doing all the subjects available
there and he recently passedhismaths
exams with 62%,” they reveal.“He’s on
track to graduate in August.”

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