Femina India – August 09, 2019

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ALL ABOUT YOU passion


can contract, releasing urine at the
same time,” says Chennai-based
sexologist Dr Santanam Jagannathan.
She also states that sometimes
women release fluid pools during
orgasm, which could be confused
with urine.
What to do: Planning will come in
handy. A simple solution would be
vacating your bladder before sex so
that you are not unsettled during
the act. In case you feel an urge
while you are at it, excuse yourself
and use the loo. “Most men are
cool about it, even if you have to
repeat the foreplay. Worst-case sce-
nario: if you do end up peeing dur-
ing sex, just shrug it off as a natural
body phenomenon, clean up, and
move on,” says Jagannathan.

Gassy glitches
Strange noises (not the ones that
turn your significant other on) can
catch you unawares; imagine letting
out a belch while kissing or hearing
his stomach growl almost comically
in response to the sweet nothings
you’re whispering in his ears. Sounds
like quite a scenario, doesn it? “My
boyfriend and I have odd hours at
work, and we meet at odd hours as
well, so there’s a good chance one
of us is ravenous, or full on a meal.
This means that letting out some
extra wind is definitely a possibility.
We have both farted around each
other, sometimes right in the middle
of a very intense sexual moment.
Our stomachs have also let out a tell-
tale rumble, if hunger is getting in
the way of our passion.,” says Gargi
Singh*, a 26-year-old freelance
illustrator from Chennai.
What to do: It might seem like
a buzz kill in that moment, but it
shouldn’t be taken seriously. “Yes,
it’s embarrassing, but if your partner
cares about you, it’s not the end of
the world. These are all bodily activi-
ties, and no one does it on purpose.
Laugh about it, cuddle a bit, and
you’ll find it’s perfectly okay,”
states Singh.

BEDROOM


BLOOPERS
A romp between the sheets is fun, but what if you
encounter awkward situations during the act?
Neeti Jaychander tells you how to deal with them

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ou would assume that sex
with your partner is always
“perfect”, with no glitches.
However, that’s far from
the truth. A few situations are not
in one’s control, and bedroom faux
pas are more common than you
think. We tell you what could go
wrong and how you could turn it into
a lighter moment.

Nature’s call
This is possibly your worst nightmare,
and one that you think would gross
him out. Fear not—according to
experts, this is normal. “The reason
some women feel like urinating or
unintentionally urinate just before
or during orgasm, is that penetration
can often put pressure on the bladder.
During sex and orgasm, the bladder
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