YB BABY FILES: TODDLER
72 | JULY & AUGUST 2019
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Pick up the phone, and call a friend.
Often all a toddler needs to be happily
entertained is someone else to play with.
Kids – together – will think up all kinds of
games that you couldn’t possibly imagine.
And if their mom comes along too, then
you have someone to have a natter with.
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Build a fort (with old blankets) or pitch
a tent (we’re sure you have one lying
around from your single camping days?).
These bring such novelty to playing, and
you’ll see how new life is brought to all of
your kids’ toys once they’re painstakingly
taken – one by one – into their new
“house”. And if the weather is not
freezing cold, consider pitching the tent
in the garden.
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Go for a walk, and stop to smell the
roses. Toddlers love to dawdle, and if
you let them, you’ll have fewer hours to fill
before bedtime. If you have a safe park
nearby, pay a visit. Jungle gyms and other
kids take the edge off any day.
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On that note, work that imagination.
Make-believe games are easy to invent,
and you really can follow your little one’s
lead on this.
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Hunt for toys. As long as you remember
where you put them – especially that
favourite toy – why not hide your kids’ toys
all over the house, and even the garden?
It’s great practice for next year’s Easter-
egg hunt and should keep them busy for
a while. When you’re done – get them to
hide the toys, and you can get Dad to look
for them when he gets home from work.
ideas to keep the
kids entertained
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Paint the house – with water! This is
a great game, especially for the
younger toddler. Fill up a bucket with water
and haul out an old painting roller. Do it
outside – and you might even land up with
slightly cleaner walls.
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Bake. Biscuit ingredients are cheap and
simple, and your toddler will just love
mixing them and rolling the dough. If you
have cookie cutters, get them to make the
biscuits into fun characters too. Great for
fine-motor-skill development.
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Kids love water, so fill up pots, buckets,
ice-cream tubs, watering cans, plastic
cups and fill and empty, fill and empty.
Younger toddlers usually love this, and
you will be amazed at how many times
the dog bowl can be filled and emptied.
Never leave your child unattended around
water though.
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It’s probably getting close to nap time
now, so why not put a mattress and
a duvet on the floor and make a reading
ring? Toddlers love books, and if you’re
short of new and exciting ones, it’s still free
to get these from the library – as long as
you remember to return them and don’t run
up a hefty fine. We know baby brain never
really goes away!
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Play dough is also fantastic for
keeping the kids entertained. And you
don’t have to buy those expensive tubs that
don’t last – make your own with half a cup
of salt, half a cup water, one cup of flour
and food dye, and you can have a fresh
“batch” for every day of the holidays.
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Hit the ball. If you ever had one of
those ball ponds, with a bag of 100
balls in it, then now’s the time to line them
up and get your future golf pro hitting
them. Once he’s gone through all 100,
encourage him to collect the balls and line
them up for his brother. There’s a reason
why gold stars were invented.
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Play hide and seek. Kids love the thrill
of hiding and being found and can do it
over, and over, and over again. If you’re the
one hiding, you can use the “quiet” time to
catch up on your emails on your smartphone.
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Dance. We’re almost certain you have
at least one playlist of nursery rhymes
to jump around to, but the good news is,
lots of babies love all kinds of music, which
means you might even be able to crank up
one of your own playlists and get moving
to it – just like the old days!
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Dress up! Little girls love to dress
up, and you don’t need to buy
fancy props. Fish out scarves, shoes,
feather boas, sparkly handbags and
cheap jewellery – you name it – and your
princess will have a field day. Old skirts
work wonderfully as dresses. Little boys
love playing pirates too. Make him an
eye-patch, and find an old roll of wrapping
paper – believe it or not, these work great
as “swords”.
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Have a tea party under the trees.
You can get those plastic tea sets
at next to nothing from the Crazy Store
or Pep. Otherwise, you can just pretend.
Little girls love to sit on a picnic blanket
and feed their babies tea and cake. Little
boys have been known to make a great
cappuccino too.
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Watch TV. While this is a contentious
issue, there really is only so much
you can do. As long as the screen time
is limited, it can be used as an exercise
in concentration too. A DVD swap with
friends is a great idea, and also a check
of your local library to see if it doesn’t
stock movies – many of them do.
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Create a classroom. Get some glue,
old magazines, paper and crayons –
and we’re sure you’ll be able to come up
with an arts and crafts centre. See what
things you have in the house that can add
to the fun – glitter, stickers, crinkle paper,
foil and paint. You can even download
and print fun pictures off the internet
to colour in – there are loads of sites
dedicated to this.
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Build a ramp. If you have an old piece
of wood lying around, and an elevated
area somewhere, your son will think you’re
the best thing since Jake from the Neverland
Pirates if you make him a ramp for his cars.
He can race them up and down and see
how far they can go. Just make sure he
doesn’t try it out with his scooter.
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Get out your nail polish. Your daughter
wants to do what you do, so paint her
fingers and toes, give her a head rub, and
hopefully you will squeeze in a mini mani
and pedi for yourself too. May we suggest
that you paint your own nails though...
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Find a spot where the grass isn’t
growing and make a sandpit just
like the one at school. You can get cheap
building sand at building outlets like Mica
or Builders. YB
AS THE OLD saying goes, “Time flies
when you’re having fun,” so fill up the
long hours of the weekends and spare
time with these cheap home-based
activities. Not only will they keep your
kids happy and busy, but they’ll keep
you sane(r) too.
With the cost of living sky rocketing every day, it’s
become the norm to stay home, making it easy to fall
into the boredom trap. Tori Hoffmann has some tips
to help you avoid this
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