Acknowledgments
To my brothers Tyler, Richard and Tony I owe the greatest debt for making
this book possible, first in the living of it, then in the writing of it. From them
and their wives, Stefanie, Kami and Michele, I learned much of what I know
about family.
Tyler and Richard in particular were generous with their time and their
memories, reading multiple drafts, adding their own details, and in general
helping me make the book as accurate as possible. Though our perspectives
may have differed in some particulars, their willingness to verify the facts of
this story enabled me to write it.
Professor David Runciman encouraged me to write this memoir and was
among the first to read the manuscript. Without his confidence in it, I might
never have had confidence in it myself.
I am grateful to those who make books their life’s work and who gave a
portion of that life to this book: my agents, Anna Stein and Karolina Sutton;
and my wonderful editors, Hilary Redmon and Andy Ward at Random
House, and Jocasta Hamilton at Hutchinson; as well as the many other people
who worked to edit, typeset and launch this story. Most notably, Boaty
Boatright at ICM was a tireless champion. Special thanks are owed to Ben
Phelan, who was given the difficult task of fact checking this book, and who
did so rigorously but with great sensitivity and professionalism.
I am especially grateful to those who believed in this book before it was a
book, when it was just a jumble of home-printed papers. Among those early
readers are Dr. Marion Kant, Dr. Paul Kerry, Annie Wilding, Livia Gainham,
Sonya Teich, Dunni Alao and Suraya Sidhi Singh.
My aunts Debbie and Angie came back into my life at a crucial moment,
and their support means everything. For believing in me, always, thanks to
Professor Jonathan Steinberg. For granting me haven, emotional as well as
practical, in which to write this book, I am indebted to my dear friend, Drew
Mecham.