SEX

WAYS TO BE

M O RE EROTIC

OUTSIDE THE

8 BEDROOM

canbemoreeroticthantheactual

livedreality.Arousingotherscan

bea wholelotoffunand,atthis

pointintime,it’sstillnotagainst

thelaw.So,howdoesonego

aboutarousinganotheraway

fromthebedroom?I givea few

suggestionsfurtherdownthis

article—patience,please!

SEXTS&

DICKPICS

Dickpicsgeta badrapinthe

mainstreammedia,particularly

fromfemi-naziswhocontinuallytry

toerasea woman’ssexualagency

withtheirmeaninglessarguments.

But,thetruthislotsofwomen

lovetoreceivedickpicsandthis

israrelyspokenabout.I would

suggestbeforeyousenda dick

pic or kinkysext,thatyou’re100%

suresheisopentoreceivingone.

Manywomentakegreatoffence

toreceivingunsolicitedpicsofthe

maleappendage.SoPLEASEbe

sure to do your homework first.

exploresexualfantasiesawayfrom

homewithlike-mindedpeople

ina safeandsexuallyeducated

environment.Strippersandsex

workersprovidemenandwomen

withanoutlet—a placetoexplore

newsexacts,a placeawayfrom

home,a placeofcounsel.More

importantly,a placeofnon-

judgment.It’sa wonderful(not

to mentionhonest)wayto explore

one’ssexualityandsensuality.

PUBLIC

EXCHANGES

Sexin public(thoughillegal)is

somuchfun– thefearofgetting

caughtonlyincreasesthecarnal

pleasures.Butif you’rea wowser,

havenofear—thereareother

sexualexchangestobehad.

Aflirtatiousconversationwitha

strangerisperhapsa goodstart?

Howabouta follow-me-home-

and-f–k-melookorevenan

accidentalandinnocentbrush-

upagainstsomeone?Sexual

exchangesarewaitingtobe

had—so,putyourmobilephone

away and engage with the world.

Whatpreventspeoplefromliving

a sexuallifeoutsidethebedroom?

Isit a lackofexperimentationorjust

blatantvanillaconventionalism?Erotic

livingexistsoutsidetheconf inesofone’s

boudoir.It’sa wayoflifeformanyyet

it shouldbea wayoflifeforall.Here

are some handy hints to get you going...

Tocelebrateour

8thBirthday,resident

MAXIM sexpert

VANESSADE

LARGIEpresents

a listof eighthelpful

methodstohelpyou

live your sexiest life!

BYVANESSA DE LARGIE

GETCREATIVE
Creativityisthefirststepto
livinganeroticlifeoutsidethe
bedroom.Onehastobewillingto
opentheirmindandthinkoutside
thebox.Accordingtoa national
surveyconductedbyBody&Soul,
almost50%of Aussiemencraved
a moreadventuroussexlife,with
twiceasmanyblokes(compared
to women)admittingtheyenjoyed
a bit of ‘crumpet’on the side
(intheirsupposedlymonogamous
relationships).Thisresearch
revealsthata lotofAustralianmen
areboredoutoftheirbrains.Well,
it’stimetostopmakingexcuses
andgetcreative.Creativityisthe
fasttracktoa trulyeroticsex life.

THINK
AROUSAL
Theysayeroticastartsinthe
mindandI agreewiththis
sentiment.Asoneoftendiscovers
— imagining sex with someone

INTERNAL

EROTICA

Becausemenaresuch

visceralcreatures,theytendto

oftenviewsexasphysicaland

external.Eroticastartsinternally

intheformofthoughts,actions,

deeds,sensations,feelingsand

imaginings.Mainstreamerotica

andsexualityalsotendstoget

hung-upbysurface-levelstuff

suchaslooks,clothes,etc...Ifyou

wanttohavea shit-hotsexlifeand

attracta wholegamutofsexual

experiences,trylookinginside.

STRIP,FETISH

&SEXCLUBS

Asa womanI hatethestigma

aroundsexwork,groupsex,

strippersandsoon.It’sso

backwards.Itdemonisesmen

andmakesfoolsoutofthewomen

whoconsciouslychoosetoworkin

theseoccupations.Sexclubsand

fetish clubs are a great place to

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