If you look back at your grade school
yearbook, you’d probably laugh at the
goals you had written for yourself. Some
goals are too ambitious (be the first
Filipina in space), too unrealistic (become
a fairy princess), or too vague (become rich
and live in a big house) for 10 year olds to
achieve. Admittedly, even a decade later,
some goals are still far-off.
Still, it’s not a bad idea to start setting
goals when you’re young. ''It is a fallacy
that youth is a time when one can gamble
on investments,'' financial planner Charles
Obsusin was quoted saying in The New
York Times article “The Art of Successful
Goal Setting.” It’s true that a lot of people,
especially in this country, think that your
teenage years and early twenties are a
time to have fun and not think about what
you really want to do in life. It’s this blasé,
bahala na attitude that can unfortunately
bite you in the back later on.
As a young person, you might feel a sense
of embarrassment about setting up goals—
Is this goal really for me? Maybe this isn’t
a good fit. If I say it out loud, people might
make fun of me—and that’s where one of
the best benefits of goal-setting comes in.
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Goal-Setting is a
Young Person
Thing, too
It’s never too young to start thinking
about your future
Mapping out your plans doesn’t only help
you buckle up, it also helps you “fake it till
you make it.”
While you’re young, be ambitious and
don’t be afraid to know what you want.
When you’re older, you might regret not
taking what could’ve been a career-
defining opportunity. And as the pop diva
Cher already taught us in 1989, you can’t
turn back time, no matter how much you
want to.
Wonder, passion, and rigor are the three
core things you need in life. Wonder and
passion are obvious: If you don’t have either
wonder and passion for what you do, then
why do it? But rigor is the more nebulous
one. There will be hard times when your
wonder and passion will escape you. Your
sheer rigor is what’s going to keep you
going. Rigor is the ability to clock in your
work even under great duress, to do all
your tasks at hand. It’s the less glamorous
side of achieving your dreams, sure, but it’s
also the one that helps hone your talent
and skills. Goal-setting is inherently part of
this. It may not sound as fun, but it helps
keep you in line and prepared for what you
have to do.
You’re not
just trudging
on with a
fuzzy dream
of a future;
you have a
concrete
reality that
you know
how to reach.
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