of [Meghan and Kate’s] relationship
strengthening.”
The new setup has also helped
them focus on their specific roles
within the royal family. “They all
know what’s at stake, and William
and Harry know that their grand-
mother [Queen Elizabeth] in par-
ticular needs them to be on the
same page,” says a friend.
The pressure was especially in-
tense for Meghan, an American
who left her friends, family and
career in Hollywood to start a new
life in England with Harry. “She
pretty much arrived in the U.K.
and went straight into learning
how to be a royal,” says the insider.
“Moving to a new country is not
an easy thing. Then you multiply
that it’s the royal family and comes with thou-
sands of years of pomp and circumstance. Here she
was planning her wedding, which anyone who has
done it knows how stressful that is, while also im-
mersing herself in a new country, a new family, a
new life, all while living in a fishbowl.”
Kate, who dated William for nearly a decade be-
fore they wed in 2011, has now lived almost half
her life in the royal spotlight and feels more sure-
footed than ever. “You’re seeing more confidence
from Meghan recently but also from Kate,” says
the insider. Palace sources emphasize that there is
room in the public space for their distinct strengths
and interests to shine. “Coming from different
backgrounds, I think, they have more the makings
of a team than people imagined,” says longtime roy-
als author Robert Lacey. “And they have a common
interest as partners to these two men who are so
crucial to the monarchy, along with their children.”
Those children, of course, help unite the young
families even more. “Harry and William were very
fortunate to have an incredibly robust friendship
with their cousins growing up,” says Arbiter. “They’ll
want to follow a similar mold with their children.
The royal cousins are the only other people on the
planet who understand this life. We’ll see that rela-
tionship and shared camaraderie as they get older.”
Kate and Meghan now both face the difficult
job of raising their children in the public eye while
maintaining a sense of privacy—for both them-
selves and their children. “Meghan has struggled
with the intensity of the spotlight,” says a source
close to the royal household. “Although she is a
former actress, this is on a different level.”
And no one understands the pressure Meghan
is under more than Kate. “It is an isolated exis-
tence,” says the insider. Motherhood itself can be
the same, something Kate herself has acknowl-
edged. “It is lonely at times, and you do feel quite
isolated,” she has said. “But so many other moth-
ers are going through exactly what you are going
through.” Adds Arbiter: “Babies are a great leveler.
The minute you’re bonding over your stories and
sleepless nights, suddenly all the stuff that mat-
tered before doesn’t matter anymore.”
By Erin Hill. With Monique Jessen, Simon Perry
and Michelle Tauber
The Grammy winner, 72, was
a close friend of Prince Harry’s
mother, Princess Diana,
and has remained close
with him. (He performed
at both Diana’s funeral and
Meghan and Harry’s wedding
reception.) The royals greeted
the singer with a big hug
on July 14 at the Lion King
premiere, where Sir Elton
also whispered words of
encouragement into Meghan’s
ear—and got a smile when he
complimented her shoes!
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in for a hug and
called Meghan
“my princess.” She
also said Archie is
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