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November 7th

HOW TO BE POWERFUL

“Don’t trust in your reputation, money, or position, but in the

strength that is yours—namely, your judgments about the things

that you control and don’t control. For this alone is what makes us

free and unfettered, that picks us up by the neck from the depths

and lifts us eye to eye with the rich and powerful.”

—EPICTETUS, DISCOURSES, 3.26.34–35

n a scene in Steven Pressfield’s classic novel about Alexander the Great,
The Virtues of War, Alexander reaches a river crossing only to be
confronted by a philosopher who refuses to move. “This man has conquered
the world!” one of Alexander’s men shouts. “What have you done?” The
philosopher responds, with complete confidence, “I have conquered the
need to conquer the world.”
We do know that Alexander did clash with Diogenes the Cynic, a
philosopher known for his rejection of what society prizes and, by
extension, Alexander’s self-image. Just as in Pressfield’s fictional
encounter, in Diogenes’s real confrontation with Alexander, the philosopher
was more powerful than the most powerful man in the world—because,
unlike him, Diogenes had fewer wants. They were able to look each other in
the eye and see who really had control over himself, who had achieved the
self-mastery required for real and lasting power.
You can have that too. It just means focusing inward on acquiring power
rather than outward. As Publilius Syrus, himself a former slave, put it:
“Would you have a great empire? Rule over yourself!”