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December 7th

THE CARDS WE’RE DEALT

“Think of the life you have lived until now as over and, as a dead

man, see what’s left as a bonus and live it according to Nature.

Love the hand that fate deals you and play it as your own, for what

could be more fitting?”

—MARCUS AURELIUS, MEDITATIONS, 7.56–57

e have an irrational fear of acknowledging our own mortality. We
avoid thinking about it because we think it will be depressing. In
fact, reflecting on mortality often has the opposite effect—invigorating us
more than saddening us. Why? Because it gives us clarity.
If you were suddenly told you had but a week to live, what changes
would you make? If you died but were resuscitated, how different would
your perspective be?
When, as Shakespeare’s Prospero puts it, “every third thought shall be
my grave,” there’s no risk of getting caught up in petty matters or
distractions. Instead of denying our fear of death, let’s let it make us the
best people we can be.
Today.