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Image:
Vineswith
ManyThorns.
Below,therootsgrowdeep
andwide.
Above,thevinespushthrough
bushes,
entwinethemselvesLAW 11around
trees
andpoles
and
windowledges.
To
getridofthemwouldcostsuchtoiland
blood,
itiseasiertoletthemclimb.Authority:
Makepeopledepend
onyou.More
is to begained
fromsuchdependence
thancourtesy.
Hewhohasslakedhis
thirst,
immedi-ately
turnshis back on the
well,nolongerneeding
it.When
depen~dencedisappears,
so doescivifity
anddecency,
and
thenrespect.
Thefirstlesson whichexperience
shouldteach
youistokeephope
alive butneversatisfied,
keeping
evenaroyalpatron
everinneedofyou.(BaltasarGracién,16014658)
REVERSALTheweaknessof
makingothersdepend
on
youisthat
youareinsomemeasuredependent
onthem.But
tryingtomovebeyond
that
pointmeansgettingridofthoseabove
you—itmeansstanding
alone,
depending
onnoone.Such
isthemonopolistic
driveof
a_].P.Morgan
or
ajohnD.Rocke-feller———todriveoutall
competition,
tobeincomplete
control.If
youcancornerthe
market,
somuchthebetter.Nosuchindependence
comeswithoutaprice.
Youareforcedtoisolateyourself.Monopolies
oftenturninwardanddestroy
themselvesfromthein-ternalpressure.They
alsostiruppowerful
resentment,making
theirene-miesbondtogether
tofight
them.Thedriveforcomplete
control
is
oftenruinous
andfruitless.Interdependence
remains
the
law,independence
arareandoftenfatalexception.
Bettertoplaceyourself
ina.
positionofmu-tualdependence,
then,
andtofollowthiscriticallawratherthanlookforitsreversal.Youwillnothavetheunbearable
pressureofbeing
on
top,andthemasterabove
youwillinessencebe
yourslave,
for
kewilldepend
on
you.