est?
Lustig
usedselectivehonestymany
times,
butwithCapone
hewentastep
further.Nonormalconmanwouldhavedaredsucha
con;hewouldhavechosenhissuckersfortheir
meekness,
forthatlookaboutthemthatsaysthey
willtaketheir
medicinewithoutcomplaint.
ConCapone
and
youwould
spend
the
restof
yourlife(whatever
remained ofit)
afraid.ButLustig
understoodthatamanlikeCaponespends
hisliferrfistrusting
oth-ers.Noonearoundhimishonestor
generous,
andbeing
somuchinthecompany
ofwolvesisexhausting,
evendepressing.
AmanlikeCapone
yearns
tobethe
recipientof
anhonestorgenerousgesture,
tofeelthat
noteveryone
has
anangle
orisouttorobhim.Lusiig’s
actofselectivehonesty
disarmedCapone
becauseitwassounexpected.
Aconartistlovesconflicting
emotionslikethese,
sincetheperson
caughtup
inthemissoeasily
distracted
and
deceived.Donotshyaway
from
practicingthis
law
ontheCapones
of
theworld.Withawell-timed
gesture
ofhonesty
orgenerosity,you
will
havethemostbrutaland
cynical
beastinthekingdomeating
outof
yourhand.Everything
turns
graywhenIdon’thaveatleastonemarkanthehorizon.Life
thenseems
emptyand
depressing.Icannotunderstandhonestmm.They
lead
desperate
lives,
fullofbaredom.(mm:‘.1110:
Lu.«u,«;,
ISO!) :94?KEYS’l‘(.) P()\/\"l:lRThe
essence
of
deception
isdistraction.Distracting
thepeopleyou
want
todeceive
givesyou
thetimeand
spacetodosomethingthey
won’:notice.Anactof
kindness,
generosity,
orhonesty
isoftenthemostpowerful
formofdistractionbecauseitdisannsother
people’ssuspicions.
Ittumstheminto
children,
eagerlylappingupany
kindofa.ft'ectiona.te
gesture.InancientChinathiswascalled
“givingbefore
youtake”--the
givingmakesithardforthe
other
person
tonotice
thetaldng.
It
is
a
devicewithinfinite
practical
uses.Brazenly
taking
something
fromsomeoneisdanger-
ous,evenforthepowerful.
Thevictimwill
plotrevenge.Itisalsodanger-
oussimply
toaskforwhat
youneed,
nomatterhowpolitely:
Unless
theother
personseessomegain
forthemselves,
theymay
cometoresent
yourneediness.Learnto
give
before
youtake.Itsoftenstheground,
takesthebiteoutofafuture
request,orsimply
createsadistraction.Andthe
givingcantake
manyforms:anactualgift,
at
generousact,akind
favor,an“l1on~est”admission-—whateverittakes.Selectivehonesty
isbestemployed
on
yourfirstencounterwith
someone.Weareallcreaturesof
habit,
andourfirstimpressions
lastalong
time.Ifsomeonebelieves
youarehonestatthestartofyourrelationship
ittakesalottoconvincethemotherwise.Thisgives
youroomtomaneuver.jayGould,
like AlCapone,
was
a
man
who
distrusted
everyone.By
the
time
he
was
thirty—threehe
wasalready
a
multimillionaire,mostlythroughdeception
andstrong-arming.
Inthelate
1860s,
Gouldin-vestedheavily
intheErie
Railroad,
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