causeneedlessoffense.To
play
thegameproperly,you
mustseeminter-estedinother
people‘sproblems,
evensometimes
appeartotaketheirside.Butwhile
you
makeoutward
gesturesof
support,youmustmaintain
yourinner
energy
andsanitybykeepingyour
emotionsdisengaged.
Nomatterhowhard
peopletry
to
pullyou
in,neverlet
yourinterestintheiraffairsand
pettysquabblesgobeyond
thesurface.Givethemgifts,
listen
with
asympathetic
look,
evenoccasionallyplay
thecharmer-—butinwardlykeep
boththe
friendlykings
andtheperfidious
Borgias
atarm’slength.By
refus~ing
tocommitandthus
maintaining
yourautonomyyouretaintheinitia-tive: Your moves
stay
matters of
yourownchoosing,
not defensivereactionstothe
push-and~pu1l
ofthosearound
you.Slownesstopick
upyour
weaponscanbea
weaponitself,especially
ifyou
letotherpeople
exhaustthemselvesfighting,
thentakeadvantage
oftheirexhaustion.Inancient
China,
the
kingdom
ofChinonceinvadedthekingdom
ofHsing.
Huan,therulerofanearbyprovince,thought
heshould
rushtoHsing’s
defense,
buthis
advisercounseled
him
towait:“Hsing
isnot
yetgoing
to
ruin,”
hesaid,
“andChinisnot
yetexhausted.IfChinisnotexhausted,
[we]
cannotbecome
veryinfluential.
Moreover,themeritof
supportingastateindanger
isnotas
greatasthevirtueof
revivingaruinedone.”Theadviser’s
argumentwontheday,
andashehad
pre-dicted,
Huan
laterhadtheglory
both
ofrescuingHsing
fromthebrink
ofdestructionandthenof
conqueringanexhaustedChin.Hestayed
outofthe
fighting
untiltheforcesengaged
inithadworneachother
down,
atwhich
pointitwassafeforhimtointervene.Thatiswhatholding
backfromthefray
allows
you:timetoposition
yourselfto
takeadvantage
of
thesituation
onceonesidestartsto
lose.
Youcanalsotakethe
gameastep
further,
bypromisingyoursupporttobothsidesinaconflictwhile
maneuveringsothattheonetocomeoutaheadinthe
struggleis
you.ThiswaswhatCastn1ccioCastracani,
ruleroftheItaliantownofLuccainthefourteenth
century,didwhenhehaddesigns
onthetownofPistoia.A
siegewouldhavebeenexpensive,costing
bothlivesandmoney,butCastruccioknewthat
Pistoia
containedtworival
factions,
theBlacksandthe
Whites,
whichhatedoneanother.Henegotiated
withtheBlacks,
promisingtohelp
themagainst
the
Whites;then,withouttheirknowledge,
hepromised
the Whiteshe wouldhelp
themagainst
theBlacks.AndCastrucciokept
hispromiseswhe
sentan
armytoa
Black-controlled
gatetothe
city,whichthesentxiesofcourse welcomedin.Meanwhileanotherofhisarmiesenteredthrough
aWhite—control1ed
gate.Thetwoarmiesunitedinthe
middle,occupied
the
town,killedtheleadersofbothfactions,
ended
theinternal
war,and
tookPistoiaforCastruccio.Preservingyourautonomygivesyouoptions
whenpeople
cometoblows—~you
canplay
the
mediator,
brokerthe
peace,whilereallysecuring
yourowninterests.Youcanpledgesupport
toonesideandtheother
mayhavetocourt
youwithahigher
bid.
Or,likeCastruccio,
youcan
appeartotakeboth
sides,thenplay
theantagonistsagainst
eachother.Dftentimes
whenaconflictbreaks
out,
youaretempted
to
sidewiththe
strongerparty,
ortheonethatoffers
you
apparentadvantages
inanal-THEPliltlliOFE'\'\"YWhilea
poorwomanstoodinthemarker-placesellingcheeses,
(1catcame
alongandcarried
offucheese.Adog
sawthe
pilfererand
Iried
tolakethecheese
awayfromhim.Thecatstood
up
lathedog.
So
theypitchedintoeachother.Thedog
barkedandmapped;
the
ca!
spa:and
scratched,
but
theycould
bring
thebattletonodecision,“Let's
gotothe
fox
andhavehim
referee
themailer,"
thecat
finallysuggested.
“Agreed,
"
saidthe
dog.So
theywen!Inthe
fox.The
fox
listenedtotheirargumentswith
ajurli~ciausair.“Foolish
animals,"
hechidedthem,
“whycarryonlikethat?
Ifboth
ofyou
are
willing,I'll
divide
thecheeseintwoand
you’llbothbesatisfied.
"
“/lgrecrl."saiddie
cutandthe
dog.50 the
fax
tookouthisknife
andcuttheltheesein
two,
but,instead
ofczutingit
lengthwise,he‘
Cutitinthewidth."Mylmlfis
smaller!"protestedthe
dog.The
for
looked
judi-ciouslythrough
his.s'pectarle.r
atthe
dog'sshare,"You're
right,quiteright!"hedecided.Sohewentandbit
offa
pieceofrhe
catkshare.“Thatwillmakeitevem”'hesaid.Whenthecm‘sawwhatIhe
fox
didshe
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