Image:
AThicketofShrubs.
Inthe
forest,
one shrub
latches on to
another.
entzmgling
its
Iwighboi‘
with its
thorns,
thethicket
slowlyextending
its
impen-
etrabledomain‘
Only
what
keeps
its clistancze and
stands
apart
can
grow
and
rise above the thicket.
Authority:Regard
it
as
more
courageous
notto
become involved in an
engagement
than towin
in
battle,
andwherethere
is
already
one
interfering
fool,
takecarethatthere
shallnotbetwo.
(Baltasar
Gracian,1601-1658}
REVERSAL
Both
parts
ofthislawwillturn
againstyou
if
you
takeittoofar.The
game
proposed
here
is
delicateanddifficult.If
youplay
too
manyparties
against
one
another,
they
willsee
through
themaneuverandwill
gangup
on
you.
If
youkeepyourgrowing
numberofsuitors
waiting
too
long,
you
willin-
spire
notdesirebutdistrust.
People
willstarttoloseinterest.
Eventually
youmay
finditworthwhiletocommittoonesidevwif
only
for
appearances’
sake,
to
proveyou
are
capable
ofattachment.
Even
then,however,
the
key
willbetomaintain
your
inner
indepen-
dence-—to
keepyourself
from
getting
emotionally
involved.Preservethe
unspoken
option
of
being
abletoleaveat
any
momentandreclaim
your
freedomiftheside
you
arealliedwithstartsto
collapse.
Thefriends
you
made
while
you
were
being
courtedwill
giveyouplenty
of
places
to
go
once
youjumpship.
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