Accepting
the
gifts
createdakindof
equality
betweendukeandwriter:The
dukewas
put
atease
by
the
feeling
thathewas
dealing
withamanof
his
ownaristocratic
stamp.
Hefunded
Aretino
generously.
The
giftstrategy
is
subtleandbrilliantbecause
you
donot
beg:
Youaskfor
help
in
a
dignified
way
that
impliesequality
betweentwo
people,
oneofwhom
justhappens
tohavemore
money.
Remember:Itis
up
to
you
toset
your
own
price.
As}:forlessandthat
is
just
what
you
will
get
Askfor
more,however,
and
you
senda
signal
that
you
are
worth
a
king’s
ransom.Eventhose
whoturn
you
down
respectyou
for
your
confidence,
andthat
respect
will
eventuallypay
offin
waysyou
cannot
imagine.
Image:
The
Crown.Place
it
uponyour
head
and
you
assumea
different
pose——tranqui1
yetradiating
assurance.Nevershow
doubt,
neverlose
your
dignity
beneath
the
crown,
oritwillnotfit.Itwillseem
tobedestinedforonemore
worthy.
Do
notwaitfora
coronation;
the
great»
est
emperors
crownthemselves.
Authority:Everyone
shouldbe
royal
afterhisownfashion.Letall
your
actions,
even
thoughthey
arenot
thoseofa
king,
be,
intheirown
sphere, worthy
of
one. BC sublimein
your
deeds,
lofty
in
your
thoughts;
andinall
your
doings
Showthat
you
deservetobea
king
even
thoughyou
arenotonein
reality.(Baltasar
Gracizin,
l60l~lC>58)
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