Accepting
thegifts
createdakindofequality
betweendukeandwriter:Thedukewas
put
ateaseby
thefeeling
thathewasdealing
withamanof
hisownaristocratic
stamp.
Hefunded
Aretinogenerously.
The
giftstrategyissubtleandbrilliantbecause
you
donotbeg:
Youaskforhelp
in
adignified
way
thatimpliesequality
betweentwopeople,
oneofwhomjusthappens
tohavemore
money.
Remember:Itis
upto
youtoset
yourown
price.As}:forlessandthatis
just
what
youwill
getAskfor
more,however,and
yousendasignal
thatyou
are
worth
aking’s
ransom.Eventhose
whoturn
youdown
respectyoufor
your
confidence,
andthat
respectwilleventuallypay
offin
waysyoucannot
imagine.
Image:
The
Crown.Place
it
uponyourheadand
youassumea
different
pose——tranqui1yetradiatingassurance.Nevershowdoubt,
neverlose
your
dignitybeneaththe
crown,oritwillnotfit.Itwillseemtobedestinedforonemoreworthy.
Donotwaitfora
coronation;
the
great»est
emperorscrownthemselves.Authority:Everyone
shouldberoyal
afterhisownfashion.Letall
youractions,
eventhoughthey
arenot
thoseofaking,
be,
intheirownsphere, worthy
of
one. BC sublimein
yourdeeds,
lofty
in
yourthoughts;
andinall
yourdoings
Showthat
youdeservetobea
kingeventhoughyou
arenotoneinreality.(Baltasar
Gracizin,l60l~lC>58)
LAW 34 289