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of(IntTltameswithrmarr!/lcitzlfly.Hethrewhisbailwith
soInuchan,that4:
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it,whenshewasprevetztzrlby
hm‘tmvrhrr.“Navcr."midrile,
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betooprecipitate,
when:thereixll
po.r.\'t'bili(_vofdanger.
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consider,lteforeyouriskanaction
aim:
ntnytie/"am!Howknowyou
whether
yontlppmtlailcz’
hrimlr.-edafly.
orIhtesnare
ofanunetny?
Letsomeoneelsemakethe
expert?mm:
beforeyou.Ifitbe
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veryp!‘()b(£[71}'
eludethe
fin:tzlmck:and
the
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made,iftmtwith
sitccesx.
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.st1fe1y."Shithadnostmmtr
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a
gttdgeonsuizeclthe
pretendedfly.andbecmnemtexanxplc
tothe
giddytlaughrer
oflheimpor-tance
of
her
mother":counsel.r/xnuas.ROBERTDonsmv.1'/tl3—l 764Nextthereisfimed
time:theshort—termtimethatwecanmanipulate
asanoffensiveweapon,upsetting
the
timingofouropponents.Finally
thereisend
lime,whenaplan
mustbeexecutedwithspeed
andforce.Wehavewaited,foundthe
moment,andmustnothesitate.LongTime.Thefamousseventeenth-centuryMingpainter
ChouYung
relatesa
storythatalteredhisbehaviorforever.Lateonewinterafternoonhesetout tovisitatownthatlay
acrosstheriverfromhisowntown.Hewasbringing
some
importantbooks
and
paperswithhimandhadcommis-sioneda
youngboytohelp
him
carrythem.As
the
ferryneared
theothersideofthe
river,
ChouYung
askedtheboatmanifthey
wouldhavetimetogettothetownbeforeits
gatesclosed,
sinceitwasamile
awayandnight
wasapproaching.
Theboatmanglanced
attheboy,
andatthebundleofloosely
tied
papersand
books-“Yes,”hereplied,
“if
youdonotwalktoofast.”Asthey
started
out, however,
thesunwassetting.
Afraidofbeing
lockedoutofthetownatnight,prey
tolocal
bandits,
Chouandtheboy
walkedfasterandfaster,
finallybreaking
intoarun.Suddenly
thestring
aroundthe
papersbroke
andthe
documents
scatteredontheground.
Ittookthem
manyminutes
to
putthepackettogetheragain,
andby
thetimethey
hadreachedthe
citygates,itwastoolate.When
youforcethe
paceoutoffearand
impatience,
youcreateanestofproblems
thatrequirefixing,
and
youenduptaking
muchlonger
thanifyouhad
taken
yourtime.Hurriersmayoccasionallyget
therequicker,
butpapersflyeverywhere,
newdangers
arise,
andthey
find
themselvesincon-stantcrisis
mode,
fixingtheproblems
thatthey
themselveshavecreated.Sometimes
not
actinginthefaceofdanger
is
yourbest
move»-you
wait,youdeliberately
slowdown.Astime
passesitwilleventuallypresentop
portunitiesyouhadnotimagined.
Waiting
involves
controllingnotonlyyour
ownemotionsbut
thoseofyourcolleagues,
who,mistaking
acfionfor
power,
maytrytopush
youintomaking
rashmoves.In
yourrivals,
ontheother
hand,
youcan
encouragethissamemistake:If
youlet
themrushheadlong
into
trouble
while
youstandback
and
wait,
youwillsoon
find
ripemoments
to
intervene
andpick
upthepieces.
Thiswisepolicy
wastheprincipal
strategyofthegreatearly-
seventeenthcenturyemperor
Tokugawa
Ieyasu
of
japan.Whenhis
prede~cessor,theheadstrongHideyoshi,
whomheservedas3.general,staged
arash
invasionof
Korea,leyasu
didnotinvolvehimself.Heknewtheinva-sionwouldbeadisasterandwouldleadtoHideyoshfs
downfall,Bettertostandpatiently
onthesidelines,
even
finmanyyears,andthenbeinposition
toseize
powerwhenthetimeisrightmexactly
whatIeyasudid,
with
greatanistry.
Youdonotdeliberately
slowtime
down
tolivelonger,
ortotakemorepleasure
inthe
moment,
but
thebettertoplay
the
gameof
power.
First,when
yourmindisuncluttered
byconstantemergenciesyou
willseefur»therintothefuture.Second,
youwillbeabletoresistthebaitsthat