no longer felt suffocated and was less bothered by the changes she made.
After six months, during which time Grace barely ever actually stayed at
her sublet apartment, she didn’t bother to look for another sublet—Sam and
she had adjusted to living together.
MAKE BECOMING SECURE AN ONGOING GROWTH
PROCESS
Remember that attachment styles are stable and plastic—becoming more
secure is an ongoing process. Whenever a new concern, dissatisfaction, or