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Your expectations are further influenced by
your level of confidence in yourself and your
abilities (Dweck & Grant, 2008; Judge, 2009).
off with very easy anagrams, but half began with
insoluble ones. Sure enough, those who started
with the easy ones increased their estimates of
success on later ones. Those who began with the
impossible ones decided they would all be impos-
sible. These expectations, in turn, affected the
young women’s ability to actually solve the last
10 anagrams, which were the same for everyone.
The higher the expectation of success, the more
anagrams the women solved (Feather, 1966).
Once acquired, therefore, expectations can cre-
ate a self-fulfilling prophecy (Merton, 1948): Your
expectations make you behave in ways that make
the expectation come true. You expect to suc-
ceed, so you work hard—and succeed. Or you
expect to fail, so you don’t do much work—and
do poorly.
self-fulfilling proph-
ecy An expectation that
becomes reality because
of the tendency of the
person holding it to act in
ways that bring it about.
Person doesn’t
study adequately
or enough
Prophecy fullled;
person doesn’t
learn the stuff
Prophecy:
“I’ll never learn
this stuff”
Person gives
up trying
poWer
henry Kissinger
(b. 1923)
Former Secretary of
State
“power is the ultimate
aphrodisiac.”
dUty
eleanor roosevelt
(1884–1962)
humanitarian, lecturer,
stateswoman
“as for accomplishments, I just
did what I had to do as things
came along.”
eXCeLLeNCe
Florence griffith Joyner
(1959–1998)
olympic gold medalist
“When you’ve been second best
for so long, you can either ac-
cept it, or try to become the
best. I made the decision to
try and be the best.”
greed
Ivan Boesky (b. 1937)
Financier, convicted of
insider trading violations
“greed is all right...I think
greed is healthy. you can be
greedy and still feel good about
yourself.”