The key to tenth- and eleventh-century society was personal dependency. This took
many forms. Of the three traditional “orders” recognized by writers in the ninth
through eleventh centuries—those who pray (the oratores), those who fight (the
bellatores), and those who work (the laboratores)—the top two were free. The pray-
ers (the monks) and the fighters (the nobles and their lower-class counterparts, the
knights) participated in prestigious kinds of subordination, whether as vassals, lords,
or both. Indeed, they were usually both: a typical warrior was lord of several vassals
and the vassal of another lord. Monasteries normally had vassals to fight for them,
while their abbots in turn were vassals of a king or other lord. At the low end of the
social scale, poor vassals looked to their lords to feed, clothe, house, and arm them.
At the upper end, vassals looked to their lords to enrich them with still more fiefs.
Some women were vassals, and some were lords (or, rather, “ladies,” the female
version). Many upper-class laywomen participated in the society of warriors and
monks as wives and mothers of vassals and lords and as landowners in their own
right. Others entered convents and became oratores themselves. Through its abbess
or a man standing in for her, a convent was itself often the “lord” of vassals.
Vassalage was voluntary and public. In some areas, it was marked by a
ceremony: the vassal-to-be knelt and, placing his hands between the hands of his
lord, said, “I promise to be your man.” This act, known as “homage,” was followed
by the promise of “fealty”—fidelity, trust, and service—which the vassal swore with
his hand on relics or a Bible. Then the vassal and the lord kissed. In an age when
many people could not read, a public moment such as this represented a visual and
verbal contract, binding the vassal and lord together with mutual obligations to help
each other. On the other hand, these obligations were rarely spelled out, and a lord
with many vassals, or a vassal with many lords, needed to satisfy numerous
conflicting claims. “I am a loser only because of my loyalty to you,” Hugh of
Lusignan told his lord, William of Aquitaine, after his expectations for reward were
continually disappointed.^7
Lords and Peasants