On the other hand, simply being where you are and who you are and receiving love as it
comes to you (even if you have to imagine it coming to you) increases attraction and literally
magnetizes a man to you.
Staying emotionally open no matter what’s going on allows you to receive love, even if you
don’t think it’s coming at you.
You’ll also learn why choosing to be the feminine-energy partner in your relationship will
get you what you want from your man. You’ll discover how gratitude and appreciation – even
for the seemingly small things – repairs relationships and builds trust. It allows you to receive
love from the masculine and create an environment where you can be adored.
I’m so confident that with this completely new mindset and these new skills, you’ll not only
regain hope – you’ll have the relationship you want.
Change Can Happen Quickly
How fast can you turn your love life around?Change can happen quickly when you turn around everything you do and think. I know
you’ll turn things around 180°, because I’ve seen it happen over and over with my clients. I
know you can do this, because I’ve done it. I had as little self-esteem, self-love and self-
knowledge as anyone I’ve ever coached. My habits and the way I treated myself and thought
of myself, and the dysfunctional way I related to men, were as deeply ingrained in me as in
every woman I’ve ever coached.
When I look back on my love life, it’s a jumble of memories of feeling humiliated almost
nonstop.
I could never attract or keep a man who might know how to love me and be emotionally
close to me because of my own competitiveness, my inability to speak clearly and truthfully
about what I was feeling, my passive-aggressive way of expressing all my stuffed-down anger,
my “Overfunctioning” (more on this later) and my tragic inability to feel what I was feeling.^
For most of my life, I tried to be a good girl. I had a stiff upper lip, rarely expressed pain if
a man treated me badly, put up with all kinds of humiliating experiences and smiled when I
really wanted to scream or cry.
In a sense, I was a liar. I was pretending all the time.Slowly, over time, I tried different things and experimented with new ways of being around
men. I stopped pretending. I opened my heart. I stopped trying so hard to fix everything and
do everything and just allowed myself to experience being with a man.
I developed the effortless Tools that I’ve been using and teaching my clients ever since. My
love life turned on a dime – not just once but twice! – during two separate challenges.
I want to give you hope that you’re in the right place, and that you’ve made the right