Ilookedatmydiary
thismorningandit
feelslikereading
a novelfromanother
age.It isfilledwith
parties,dinners,meetings,flower
shows,festivals,holidays,trips
toexhibitions,plays,lectures,
birthdays,weekendsbythesea.
Theyarecrossedout,struck
through,theabandoned notes
fromanotherlife.
Astheworlddealswiththe
onslaughtofthecoronavirus,I am
madedizzybyhowswiftlyour
oldliveshavebeendismantled.
Already,thethoughtofsittingin
a caféwitha bookfeelsasexotic
assippingcocktailsonyourown
tropicalisland.Watchingtelevision,
it is strangelyshockingtosee
peopleonscreenshakinghands
andhugging.Mybrain
automaticallyscreamsTWO
METRESAPARTNOTOUCHING.
Normalsocialinteractionlooks
asalienasfootbinding.Mybest
friend,a keyworker,nowhas
a specialletterwhichallowsher
tousetheUnderground,yet
onlya fewweeksagowewere
celebratingherbirthdayinan
eastLondonpub,dancingand
singingkaraoke until our feet and
throats hurt.
THECOMFORTOFBOOKS
I’vebeenreadinga lot– perhaps
youhave,too– reachingfortheold,
familiarandcomfortingstories.
OneofthebooksI’vebeeninhaling
isMrsMiniver, byJanStruther,the
pennameofJoyceMaxtone
Graham,whowrotea columnfor
TheTimesinthelate1930s.Mrs
Miniverdescribestheexquisite
ordinarinessofeverydaylife:
buyinga newengagementbook
inJanuary,choosinga dollfor
herdaughter’sbirthday,family
walksonHampsteadHeath,
chrysanthemumsinOctober,and
then, as war loomed, acquiring
WHATTOREAD
SomeofmyfavouritesÉlHomeCookingbyLaurieColwinEssays
oncookingandlifebythelateAmericanwriter.
lTheDudAvocadobyElaineDundyA
youngwomanlookingforloveandadventure
in1950sParis.A fizzing,funny,touchingread.
lHeartburnbyNoraEphronFunny,stylish
andpoignantstoryofthedeathofa marriage,
plusrecipes.I readthisatleastoncea year.
lTheCazaletChroniclesbyElizabethJane
HowardCompellingnovelsaboutanupper
classEnglishfamilyduringWorldWarII.
lAnyoftheautobiographicalbooks by American writer Ruth Reichl,
formereditorofGourmetmagazine.
lAmericanWifebyCurtisSittenfeldUtterlyabsorbing bestseller about
thepoliticalmarriageofanAmericanFirstLady.
lMrsMiniverbyJanStruther,andJanStruther’sbiography,TheReal
MrsMiniver, writtenbyhergranddaughter,YsendaMaxtoneGraham.
lAnyofthenovelsorshortstoriesofElizabethTaylor, thenovelist not the
actress. No one writes better about a certain kind of English life.gasmasksforheryoungfamily.
LastnightwhenI wassorting
laundryinmycellar,I noticedthe
airraidwarden’shelmethanging
onthehookonthefarwall.I found
it whenwemovedin 16 yearsago
and,forwantofknowing what
todowithit,
I justleftit
there.It must
havebelonged
totheman
wholived
hereduring
thewar,
a stonemason
whoworkedatthelocalcemetery.
I thinkofhimquiteoftenbecause- uniquelyinourroad– ourgarden
pathis marblecrazypaving.It is
quitehideous,butI keepit because
I liketothinkofhimcarryingsmall
off-cutsofmarblehomefromwork
andthenbusyingaway,probablyin
a shirt and tie, to lay this truly
atrociouspathofwhichI am
inordinatelyfond.SoI feelquite
connectedtothismanI nevermet
who,onedayover 70 yearsago,
hunguphisARPwarden’shelmet
inmycellarforthelasttime.And
as I folded towelsandsheetsand
didtheordinary
thingsthatkeep
ourlivesticking
over,I thought
abouthowhe
mayhavefelt
backthen:
anxietyatwhat
mightcome
next;hopethatsomehowit would
allworkoutanda certaintythat,as
a nation,wewouldenterthis new
worldmuchchanged.
I turnbackagaintoMrsMiniver:
“Notthatshedidn’tenjoythe
holidays:butshealwaysfelt– and
it was,perhaps,themeasureofher
peculiar happiness – a little→I’vebeenreading
a lot– perhapsyou
have,too– reachingfor
theold,familiarand
comforting storiesdeliciousmagazine.co.uk 33taking it easy.