already have, then maybe you ought to think about
leaving your nose alone. Why run the risk of some-
thing going wrong when your man is already happy
with the way you look? Why lose the extra weight if
your man is happy with you the way you are? Sure, it’s
fine for you to do it if it’s something you want to do for
yourself. But a man isn’t going to care about it one way
or the other if he’s already happy with what you have.
A lot of men in their forties and fifties start trying to
validate themselves by going out with women who are
significantly younger. It’s the equivalent of those same-
age men going out and buying itty-bitty sports cars with
big engines that make a lot of noise; they do this because
their “engine” doesn’t make a lot of noise anymore. This
is especially true if that man doesn’t have his life to-
gether. This isn’t a reflection on women at all; it’s his
problem. But guess what? There’s a younger man look-
ing at you right now, saying to himself, “Wow—I sure
wouldn’t mind validating myself with her!” There’s a lot
of that going on, too, you know. Like I said before,
there’s somebody for everybody.