Don’t do it in the beginning of the relationship,
unless you’re perfectly comfortable with the title gold
digger. But if you’re in a relationship—just you and
him—and you’re really in a financial pinch, mention it
and see how he reacts. Say, “I’m really in a crunch, and
I’m embarrassed to ask, but I really need your help. Do
you think you could loan me $100 to meet this pay-
ment? I’ll pay you back as soon as I can.” Most men
who really care about you won’t think anything of it if
they have it.
Without a doubt. If you’re dealing with a man
whose life isn’t on track, who isn't at peace with who he
is, how much he makes, and what he does, you might
have a guy who’d be reluctant to help because he’s still
struggling to reach his goals and won’t have time to help
you with yours. But if he has his act together and he’s
really secure in his manhood, he’ll help.